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Anonymous: how come gays and lesbieans dont change gender. If they want to play the role ofa different sex, then become that sex.

Debra Rosenberg: Sexual orientation is really completely separate from the issue of gender identity. You can be gay or lesbian and not feel you are the wrong gender. Likewise, you can feel you are the wrong gender but be straight or gay.

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Eaton, OH: I am a very liberal, open-minded person. I would be totally fine if either of my children were gay, but if my child wanted to go through sex re-assignment surgery I would feel that I had failed as a parent. I want my children to love their bodies no matter how they were born. How do I better understand the need to do something as extreme as the physical transformation of genitalia?

Debra Rosenberg: Interesting question. One thing we came across in researching this story was the research on "intersex" babies born with either genitalia of indeterminate or both sexes. No one would suggest that a baby born with that kind of anomaly was the product of bad parenting. That's the same argument many parents of gender variant kids make. They say that their kids were born with bodies that don't happen to match their brains—something no one would deliberately choose.

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  • Posted By: lantern451 @ 07/02/2008 2:33:43 AM

    Having gender variance classified as a mental disorder and relying on that for health insurance coverage is a bit of false logic. Most insurance companies in the U.S. exclude treatments for Gender Identity Disorder, but there hormonal imbalances are covered for all kinds of conditions that are not related to GID. People who need to have medical support to manage their gender variance can and should be able to access competent medical care through health insurance, but for the most part right now a GID diagnosis must be avoided if coverage is expected. There are transgender health advocates working to address this issue systemically, both from the activist side as well as from the health care provider side. Thanks, by the way, for your generally excellent responses to the questions raised about this sorely neglected and unfortunately too long obscured topic.

  • Posted By: valerierom @ 04/10/2008 11:06:57 PM

    To the person from Dallas TX regarding mental illness. Some researchers believe that gender identity is affected by hormones released by the mother during a specific stage of fetal development. Identity is not behavior; behavior is not illness, although it can be a manifestation of illness. Discrimination against expressions of gender identity is prohibited by law in 14 states and the District of Columbia as well as in more than 70 counties and localities.

  • Posted By: Vanessa Lynn @ 11/21/2007 8:10:07 PM

    To the person from L.A.,Ca. I am a 60 year old male who beleives myself to be a female although my physical body is that of a male.I have had some counseling for a time.It has been a very hard stuggle to just keep my sanity over all of this.I am married with four children.My wife is 56 years old and our children range in age from 25 to 36 years old.One of our daughters is married with our first grandchild being born back in April of this year.I am always thinking about wheather I should kill myself or try to keep on living.I have tried in the past to kill myself with a knife,that I kept trying to stab myself with but for some reason i kept missing.Maybe God has a different reason for me to go on living for.I just wish i knew what real answer to this question and i hope this has helped you to some degree.God bless you.

    Flint,Michigan

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