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Debra Rosenberg: Yes. Doctors say boys are five times as likely as girls to have some kind of gender identity issue. That could be because it's easier in our society for girls to be masculine—act like tomboys—than it is for boys to be feminine—sissies. So maybe boys (or their parents) are more likely to voice complaints about not fitting in with other boys.

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Glendora, CA: A lot of little kids like to dress up, so at what age does it cross the line from child's play into crossdressing?

Debra Rosenberg: You're right about that—not every child who says they want to be the opposite sex turns out to be transgender. In fact, doctors we spoke with said that only about 15 percent feel transgender when they grow up. Many others may turn out to be gay or lesbian—not because there is any link to sexual orientation, but because gender-variant play can also be a sign of homosexuality. Doctors seem to watch for kids who insist early (as toddlers) and consistently that they are the wrong gender. Many change their minds at puberty. But if they do not, doctors tend to take their statements about being transgender even more seriously.

Of course, many kids who are not gay or lesbian or transgender enjoy dressing up in clothes from the other gender. Doctors look for kids who are insisting on going farther than that—saying they really are the opposite sex, wanting to change their name or cut their hair. It's not just about what they wear.

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  • Posted By: lantern451 @ 07/02/2008 2:33:43 AM

    Having gender variance classified as a mental disorder and relying on that for health insurance coverage is a bit of false logic. Most insurance companies in the U.S. exclude treatments for Gender Identity Disorder, but there hormonal imbalances are covered for all kinds of conditions that are not related to GID. People who need to have medical support to manage their gender variance can and should be able to access competent medical care through health insurance, but for the most part right now a GID diagnosis must be avoided if coverage is expected. There are transgender health advocates working to address this issue systemically, both from the activist side as well as from the health care provider side. Thanks, by the way, for your generally excellent responses to the questions raised about this sorely neglected and unfortunately too long obscured topic.

  • Posted By: valerierom @ 04/10/2008 11:06:57 PM

    To the person from Dallas TX regarding mental illness. Some researchers believe that gender identity is affected by hormones released by the mother during a specific stage of fetal development. Identity is not behavior; behavior is not illness, although it can be a manifestation of illness. Discrimination against expressions of gender identity is prohibited by law in 14 states and the District of Columbia as well as in more than 70 counties and localities.

  • Posted By: Vanessa Lynn @ 11/21/2007 8:10:07 PM

    To the person from L.A.,Ca. I am a 60 year old male who beleives myself to be a female although my physical body is that of a male.I have had some counseling for a time.It has been a very hard stuggle to just keep my sanity over all of this.I am married with four children.My wife is 56 years old and our children range in age from 25 to 36 years old.One of our daughters is married with our first grandchild being born back in April of this year.I am always thinking about wheather I should kill myself or try to keep on living.I have tried in the past to kill myself with a knife,that I kept trying to stab myself with but for some reason i kept missing.Maybe God has a different reason for me to go on living for.I just wish i knew what real answer to this question and i hope this has helped you to some degree.God bless you.

    Flint,Michigan

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