(Rethinking) Gender

A growing number of Americans are taking their private struggles with their identities into the public realm. How those who believe they were born with the wrong bodies are forcing us to re-examine what it means to be male and female.

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  • Posted By: drewand @ 09/01/2009 7:44:17 AM

    Be vat you is, not what you not. Folks who de is are da happiest lot. -Tudor Turtle

  • Posted By: JeanAkouri @ 08/31/2009 7:52:58 AM

    The world would really become a better place when it realizes that the creation of the "exclusive monotheistic god" Judaism came up with has led to all sorts of aberrations against nature. In rebelling against self-proclaimed ???divine??? Pharoes, Jews lifted their own tribe at least to the status of ???chosen people??? modelled after a ???real deity??? and laid out rules and regulations to organize life as best suited their culture and times. Christianity -- which essentially had a social rebel in Jesus infuse some Buddhism into Judaism to make it a little more tolerant of human "sin" (he who is without sin shall cast the first stone, etc...) ??? then saw Churches arising only to stifle more natural social and intellectual progress. Sole proof required is consideration of all the potential ideas and scientific proofs leading towards real truth(s) we either never learned or took centuries more to discover because the Catholic Church killed countless thinkers (women, etc...) it deemed non-conformist/blasphemous dangers. And Islam, the latest ???branch??? of Judaism...Do I really need to go there or should you just turn on the news? Ancient cultures valued thought and open discussion in their efforts to seek truth. Humanity???s decline really began with the notion/imposition of a fake exclusive monotheistic entity with hundreds and thousands of taboos against everything that comes naturally to people. (thinking/questioning included, as I was taught in Catechism during my childhood indoctrination into it that this too would lead me to hell...). We will only really rise again after that concept is killed. (versus tolerated by establishments like the UN and modern democracies.) All of you about to come down on me for this entry (assuming Newsweek keeps it) may want to consider the struggles Europe is facing in dealing with Islam today for a modern/concrete example of religious incompatibility with respect for core human decency/progress.

  • Posted By: Label-Less @ 08/05/2008 12:37:08 PM

    Slight discrepancy with the terminology: In general in the GLBT community, transgendered describes someone who has not yet had sex reassignment surgery (regardless of their future plans to do so or not to do so), transsexual describes someone who is post-op, and transvestite describes someone who does not feel that they were born in the same body but wears opposite sex clothing for sexual gratification.

    • Posted By: Grayce @ 10/24/2008 12:36:59 PM

      Almost right... however Transgendered does include Transsexuals... it is an umbrella term. Your further definitions of TV is correct... based on my readings and experiences.

      • Posted By: NYboating @ 01/22/2009 11:03:18 AM

        You make a valid correction on the TG and TS difference. However, TV is a term used for anyone who weras clothing of the opposite sex, for whatever reason. Not all TVs do so for sexual gratification. Some merely prefer the clothing merely as personal expression or preference. For example, I am a heterosexual male but simply enjoy sitting around the house in skirts and dresses with no sexual element whatsoever; I am just more comfortable in that attire. Cross-dressing for sexual gratification can be called a fetish, and the broad generalization that it is the only reason for cross-dressing is a misconception that continues to stereotype the TV community.

      • Posted By: NYboating @ 01/22/2009 11:03:00 AM

        You make a valid correction on the TG and TS difference. However, TV is a term used for anyone who weras clothing of the opposite sex, for whatever reason. Not all TVs do so for sexual gratification. Some merely prefer the clothing merely as personal expression or preference. For example, I am a heterosexual male but simply enjoy sitting around the house in skirts and dresses with no sexual element whatsoever; I am just more comfortable in that attire. Cross-dressing for sexual gratification can be called a fetish, and the broad generalization that it is the only reason for cross-dressing is a misconception that continues to stereotype the TV community.

  • Posted By: Libricrat @ 11/18/2008 5:44:13 PM

    Who cares what people are? We're all people. As long as individuals are true to themselves and find their own happiness then, who cares. It's no one elses business anyway.

  • Posted By: CAstrawberrygirl @ 09/21/2008 12:12:38 AM

    Very sad that a few ideas from the academic world are causing parents and doctors to step aside from leading their children to accept their God-given gender. Parents need to take a stand and help their children find love and acceptance in who they are. Not who they "think" they are.

    • Posted By: ghostmasseur @ 10/20/2008 5:53:17 PM

      Maybe because it is not "god-given" but nature-given, with an ocassional slip-up.

      There is nothing wrong with figuring out what gender one really is versus externalities.

  • Posted By: Insects_Cry @ 09/21/2008 5:42:24 PM

    I agree with CAstrawberrygirl for the most part but as a part of said academic world I would have to add its less about accepting your gender and more about not feeling the need to conform to gender roles. For the most part i think if gender roles weren't often so narrowly defined one would feel comfortable expressing themself regardless of gender. That said, however; if a person feels the need to get a sex change operation to be happy who am i to stop them. In short i agree but for slightly different reasons, perhaps there needs to be more of a separation between Identity "who they are" and gender roles "who they they think they are". Just my two cents

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