My Brother Is Not His Disability

Having a sibling like Kevin is not a burden. To my 18-year-old brother Joe and me, it’s normal. At a time when people are often overly critical of others, Kevin reminds us that it is truly what is inside us that counts. Everyone in my family agrees that if we had the power to take away Kevin’s disability, we wouldn’t. It’s just not that big of a deal.

So please don’t feel sorry for us. Don’t feel sorry for my brother, either. There isn’t any reason to; he isn’t sick. Don’t be scared of experiences similar to mine. I can tell you that my life would not be this happy if it weren’t for Kevin. More important, have an open mind. Next time you meet a person with a disability, remember that he or she has so much to share with you. Take the time to listen.

That day last summer, as Kevin and I drove along singing to the upbeat music, I glanced at him again and was filled with hope for the world. I wished that everyone could experience that most beautiful sunshine. The road ahead of me suddenly seemed so bright.

Leaming is studying special education and English as a second language at Millersville University in Pennsylvania.

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