i think anyone who kills a baby should have been aborted.
The ripple effect of Missouri's controversial new abortion law goes far beyond its borders.
i think anyone who kills a baby should have been aborted.
Let all the babies be born,then drowned the ones we dont like.
twinkie1cat is absolutely correct. These anti-abortion activists are generally the same group that opposes increased government spending for social services. If this bunch wants to eliminate abortions, step up to guarantee the child will be cared for to adulthood.
Maybe these people know that if their parents had a choice, they would have been aborted. Maybe we would all be better off if they had been...
Dear BoJack, if you want rights to your child, then why didn't you wear protection to begin with.
Having a child is a decision to make for both parties and the results that will affect you for years to come must be thought through.
Everyone has the right to their opinion; but just because you don't like mine, doesn't mean I MUST like yours!!!
This choice is difficult no doubt; and it is one that I believe should be made between the woman, her doctor, and her God, if she believes.
People trying to push their idea of what someone else should be doing will only help drive women to back alley butchery again. Then perhaps they can live with this horror on their conscience; I CAN'T AND WON'T!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
IT IS NOT MY DECISION TO MAKE, NOR ANYONE ELSE'S!!!!
I have rights to my child .... I married the woman who gave birth to her ..... so what are you talking about....
bojack,
There are problems with your idea of you having a "right" to your child.
Every time that you have sex with your wife, do you do so with the intent of getting her pregnant? Also what if you are NOT married and had no intention of getting married to the woman you had sex with. I understand that for YOU personally that might not be the case, but for other men it is. Although I agree that the woman should use birth control, the man also has EQUAL responsiblity to use it. IF te only reason that he is not using it is that he want to get the woman pregnanat and does not let her know that, then he has acted in bad faith and is not even close to being on even standing with the woman.
Additionally, you would not have equal standfing anyway. It is HER body that is being required to carry the pregnanacy to term. That means that SHE is the only one assuming any possible medical risks. She is the one who is also assuming the risk that it might affect her employment (I know that is should to but eality is not always fair.) From that perspective HER decision far outways the man's. And like it or not, borth control DOES fail. So even if she DID intend not to get pregnant and something went wrong she has shown the responsibility that some people mention and still got pregnenet. HER right to chose what to do with her body takes precedent. That is my opinion of course.
After working at a Law firm for a year where most of our clients were either children or parents who are loosing thier children, due to abuse or neglect. I firmly believe that a women has a right to choose whether or not she wants to become a parent. And frankly, from the Human Services Case Plans I have read some women should be forced to terminate a pregnancy-especially the women who keep having children when they have already had rights to other children terminated. Not to mention that the foster care system is corupt and children are subject abuse and neglect there also. It is sad when people bring children into this world when they know that they cannot provide for them or they don't want them. If the goverment starts to take away, or make it harder to terminatea an unwanted pregnancy , in the end, more children will be abandoned, abused, and neglected.
You need a new job if you think its better to outright kill a child than subject it to abuse. I know lots of people who have been abused and grown up to be good and decent people. Remember your fighting for the Kids because they aren't their parents.
Anyone who would subject anyone else, child or unborn, willingly to abuse is obviously sick!!!!
So you just kill them and your sane? You don't make any sense!
I am a strong believer that abortion should and is a viable option under situations of Rapes or life threatening complication. At the same time I deplore women who using arguments like control of our own bodies. If you choose to have consensual sex than you had control over your body and now you should deal with the result as an adult does. How many times have women put down men because they leave and do not take care of there responsibility were a child is concerned. Grow up responsible adults deal with result of there actions and choices. If you are having an abortion as a form of birth control then you are a child who should not have sex again until you grow up.
Funny how you don't mention that perhaps the man should have used protection!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
DUHHHHHHHH!!!!!!
A lot lot of people are hypocrites, people should clean out their own house before trying to clean another's!! In this country we make laws and choices that fit the way we want to live, whether it's Godly or not. What about fornication and common law marriage? I wish people would use the energy helping young and or troubled mothers and fathers than standing in front of a building praying. Pray at home or when you pass the place.
What happens to the man's right to these unborn children? Why is it that women think they are the only ones who have the right to choose whether a baby lives or dies? If they are the only ones that have the choice to choose then they should be soley responsible for the care, feeding and provisions (monetary) of that child alone.... Tell me what do you think?
You're saying that these clinics should not fall under the same regulations as any other health facility? Wouldn't making them exempt from maintaining health requirements keep them from becoming like back alley abortionists? Don't we want these women to have the same high quality health benefits other women "enjoy" in any other health facility. It seems silly for anyone to be opposed to health and safety requirements.
AMEN!!! I for one think women should demand the best medical care possible!! Abortion mills should not be above the law or have free reign! They provide medical care and should be regulated as such- whether you are for or against abortion, you should agree!
Are you kidding me - "abortion mills" - that is a highly inflammatory use of language that is completely unnecessary (and yet not unexpected). I really wish you anti-choicers would stop the name calling and stick to the issues. I can't even get past your hate to whatever point you are trying to make.
Oh no hun, I don't speak with hate, but rather with pure pity and shame. I have nothing but pity for women who have fallen victim to this mindset that they can get what they want, they can fix their financial situations, finish school and can live their dreams by throwing away their children and I feel shame and regret for having fallen for it myself. Abortion is a permanent decision and it's only a matter of time before one feels the sorrow and regret, whether it is minutes after the procedure or on their death bed. For me, it was the moment I saw an ultrasound of my second child at 8 weeks gestation and I was hit hard with the realization that I threw away my first child at an even later stage of development. This will never leave me. So please don't mistaken my tone for hate, it's pity, shame and regret.
Well trust me that I have neither asked for your pity nor do I need it - so you can keep it! In fact, your superior tone is offensive. Just because you felt (or continue to feel) sorrow and regret does not mean that all other women feel the same. That is a naive, incorrect, and unsubstantiated claim. I am sorry that you felt (or continue to feel) that sorrow and regret, but that is you and I take offense that you dare project that upon me and other women. I look forward to a world where women have rights to make their own choices and exercise full agency over their bodies. I "pity" those women who do not understand that is the true fight!
Joan is sharing a personal experience don't mistake it for ignorance, it is experience and she has everyright to share it with the world she chose to share it with you and you threw it back in her face shame on you.
And your tone isn't superior??? You believe what you believe and defend it with passion, as do I. News flash, we are living in a world where women have the right to make their own choices, but some choices are wrong. The choice of abortion harms women mentally, emotionally, psychologically and in many cases, physically. Just because some women may have no regret doesn't mean their decision was right. Again, for most women, I believe it's only a matter of time before they feel the regret. Have a lovely evening.
News flash - we are NOT living in a world where women have the right to make their own choices - we are living in a country where women's right to make choices is constantly threatened. And yes, I will continue to fight for that right with passion - the right for all women to make choices for themselves, without any legislative boundaries or restrictions.
As a response to kseed (Choose life -- your mother did") My mother didn;t HAVE a choice.
luckily for you
If this country would ever decide to make birth-control readily available, there wouldn't be as many abortions as there is. Just by not teaching kids/teenagers about safe sex doesn't mean they're not going to do, it just means they are going to be mis-informed and not know how not to get pregant or STD's. I do not promote abortions or promiscious sex, but it should be MY choice not the governments!
You can buy a condom in any drugstore. Its not the governments job to supply Birth control.
oh honey. where are you getting your facts? abortion needs to be legal. abortion has been going on since the beginning of time and even today, when abortion is (Barely) legal in most places, 80,000 women die every year from illegal abortions bc they don't have access (whether financially, or distance-wise) to places that do them legally--safe and professional. just b/c there are a few bad eggs doesn't make the whole industry wrong. priests and teachers and parents molest people everyday, should we make them illegal as well? of course abortion is going to be emitionally strainging, you're losing your child. but most people are doing it for the right reason. they would not be able to providee a safe, happy environment for the child to grow and learn. and i would never put my child in the social services, most foster children end up being used and abused unbtil they are 18 and then kicked ou tof the system. abortion did not liberate us? how's that? you think the woman with 9 kids and no husband in sight is liberated i just don't understand people like you. abortion is so much deeper of an issue than just "stopping life" if the christian right like yourself (or non-christian right) weren't stopping safe sex education and promotiong "abstinence only" education, things would be much different. abortion rates would drop oso much (it's been proven) and people would be healthier as well. people are going ot have sex. face it. abstinence only does nothing. people will have sex and they deserve to know how to do it safely so that abortion doesn't even NEED to be legal. and by the way, women like responsibility-free sex too. don't let their gender-biased studies fool you. you need to liberate your mind. (sorry for all of the typos but i can't see the box where i am typing anymore) abortion is safer than pregnany. more people die from child-bearing than getting abortions. you can't just be against something b/c bad things like that happen sometimes. you can say that for everything. you really need to start reading into this more and learning the facts.
where are all these dead women? I don't know a single person who has ever died from an illegal abortion and I know a lot of people. These stats are propaganda.
Decisions on abortion should be limited to pre-menopausal women. They are the only ones who really have a dog in this fight.
I htink it should be limited to fetuses as they are the ones getting chewed up by the dogs in this fight.
Deuteronomy:
2:33 And the LORD our God delivered him before us; and we smote him, and his sons, and all his people.
2:34 And we took all his cities at that time, and utterly destroyed the men, and the women, and the little ones, of every city, we left none to remain:
"utterly destroyed the men, and the women, and the little ones"
God doesn't seem to hesitate killing babies, so why would he oppose abortion? What's a little genocide between God and his followers? (Or a little hypocrisy from "moral" people - Just look at Eliot Spitzer hiring prostitutes or that Congressmen soliciting gay sex in an airport bathroom)
I've always suspected people emphasize religious morality when they are devoid of other traits such as intelligence, creativity, and integrity.
Funny that so many people who are offended if even an embryo the size of a lima bean is destroyed have no problem waging a war when they know there will be "collateral damage" (dead babies, schoolchildren among them). Wars are waged for resources and money and power, which apparently supercedes any reason a woman might have an abortion.
At least the Pope isn't hypocritical being against both war and abortion, but then I wonder why Thailand and the Phillipines had the same population in the 70's and now Phillipines is much more populated than Thailand. The Phillipines has a much larger portion of people who's kitchen pantry is a garbage dump... I wonder why? (Must be all those morally-directed people in the Phillipines)
The world can use a little less of people butting their noses into other people's business, and a little more shutting the heck up.
Well, we're at 6.6 billion people and counting... good job of "being fruitful and multiplying"... should be interesting when the human herd gets culled...
Women of America need to wake and start protecting our not so old rights..which should include control of our own bodies...as access to abortion has eroded, so it has begun for access to birth control. The fact that fundamentalist pharmacists are refusing to fill presecriptions for birth control pills and the morning after pill, succsessfully I might, needs to tell you something...what are we looking forward to in the next generation..no birth control at all...like third world countries? WAKE UP
I agree that access to birth control or the morning after pill should be readily available, but there is a clear difference to the control of one's own body and and the right of a fetus. Let me tell you why - my birth mother was pregnant at the age of 17. I am the fetus, but she had the body. She should not have the right to decide my life after that first day of conception. In fact, she should have used birth control. Once my life was formed, it's not her body, it's my life. My choice was not to be sucked down a vacumn and cut up. I am speaking as a fetus who is just about to turn 40 now and has life, a life that easily could have gone the other way - and a woman too. No woman (unless in the case of rape) has the right to make a choice for me! I now have a daughter. This affects more than just my life. This is not about her body - it's about a future of more lives. My life, my daughter's life, my family who adopted me. My husband. My friends, etc. So please, please stop with the woman's right to choose. She gave up that right the moment she gave up control of her body - the moment she didn't use birth control (or self control, for that matter). In the case of rape, it's an entirely different story. There is trauma and there was no choice. But in all other cases, I'm sorry - it's not about a woman's control of her own body. It's about a fetus's choice - my choice, to have life, to have children. To get married and have my own life. Enough with that crap. She had a choice, and she has to live with the consequences.
You know, really, here's the thing. I myself think that abortions are killing life, and life is given. However, help me if I'm wrong here, but I think the way to end abortions in this country is not to legislate them out of existence, because that wouldn't work. Abortions will still happen, and that's a sad fact of life. We as a country need to (a) put less restrictions on adoptions of American-born children (there's a reason that people looking to adopt are often forced to adopt from overseas); (b) give mothers who are scared for whatever reason (whether it's because they're in danger from their inlaws, or feel that their lives will be over, etc.) REAL help so that they don't feel that it's something they HAVE to do, and (c) crackdown on any scum of the earth that refuses to help his child and the mother of his own child (note, I do not say man here, because as a man, I feel that a REAL man takes responsibility). And I don't just mean financially. I mean being a part of that child's life no matter what.
Women deserve a society in which they don't feel that they MUST abort a child due to their own circumstances. What I'm saying is that women deserve a society in which abortion is no longer felt to be needed except when a pregnancy is endangering her life (e.g., tubal pregnancies and the such), and that we, as fellow citizens of the United States, should all be ashamed that we aren't currently creating such a society.
Couple interesting things from this article to think about:
1. -- The in-person counseling session required 24-hours before an abortion by Missouri statute is termed one of the state's "more stringent laws". Is this really that unreasonable, so unreasonable in fact that it could called stringent or strict?
2. -- Do you notice on page 2 how Ms. Hile, the clinic manager, uses the term "abortion care" twice in the same sentence. Think that's a coincidence? No. Anybody with any PR background recognizes that is a term that has been coined to downplay the nature of the procedure -- simply an attempt shift focus to "care", which has positive health & medical connotations, and away from abortion, which has negative connotations and is in direct conflict with both the modern and classical Hippocratic oath taken by most medical students upon graduation.
Just wondered about your thoughts on these observations.
I understand the point of the article - that forcing abortion clinics to be licensed as out-patient surgical centers will be a huge hardship to the clinics in Missouri, and that the so-called pro-life lobby (what a misnomer) knew that when they pushed for the legislation. But unfortunately for the Missouri clinics, they SHOULD be out-oatient surgical centers. A first-trimester abortion IS a surgical procedure, particularly when anesthesia is used, and clinics that provide abortions should meet the same standards as clinics that provide any other out-patient surgical procedure.
The rest of the Missouri law, however, is repugnant. As a nurse, when I teach women about conception and contraception, I spend less than a minute discussing abortion - I spend all the rest of my time discussing conception and contraception, sexuallity and responsibility. To exclude good educators from being able to provide information that is so desperately needed just because they work in a clinic that offers abortion services is ridiculous.
Its really sad that the state's government would allow a bunch of people's personal morals help make sneaky laws to step on the rights of women who have made the choice for themselves to have an abortion. If those women want one, then let it be. Everyone has to live with their own personal choices, no one has to like it.
"...everyone has to live with their own personal choices...."
The baby doesn't get to live with it... he/she gets aborted.
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