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  • Posted By: twinkie1cat @ 06/16/2008 4:35:12 PM

    The whole social construct of the anti-abortion movement needs to be forced to change through social pressure. They need to walk the walk of caring about life and children. If they cannot do so they need to go home.

    1. They need to demonstrate their concern for children by becoming social justice liberals. That means they support public education, universal health care, subsidized housing and free higher education and oppose the death penalty.

    2. They should not be representing as leaders of the so-called prolife movement unless they have adopted at least one hard to place or special needs unwanted child .

    If these people were judged as socially unacceptable if they did not practice what they preach, the movement would fall apart in a matter of weks. ANTIABORTIONISTS ONLY CARE ABOUT BABIES AS LONG AS THEY ARE NOT COSTING THEM ANYTHING. If they have to walk the walk, they will quit talkign the talk because they are nothing but whiny hypocrites.

  • Posted By: twinkie1cat @ 06/16/2008 4:21:37 PM

    The antiabortionists just do not quit. But they don't care a whit about women and children after they are here and COST THEM MONEY or they would be social justice liberals supporting subsidized housing, increased funding for PUBLIC schools, free universal health care and free college tuition and fees. They would also require that all schools hire only certified teachers and start their pay at $60,000. But no, they oppose everyting that helps children because it costs them.

    No one should be allowed to publicly call themselves "pro life" and participate in demonstrations unless they have adopted at least one unwanted child and should not be allowed into leadership of those organizations unless that child is hard-to- place or disabled.

  • Posted By: Mark Carwford @ 11/27/2007 3:35:22 PM

    However, Michael says she has never posed as a member of the Hope Clinic staff as was reported in the story. "That would be wrong," she says.

    The hell she hasn't!

    She told my daughter and I, that she was working with the clinic to do the ultra sounds because their regular machine was broken down.

    She also said that the clinic paid her to do the ultrasounds and counseling to save time and space.

    We figured it out, when she started pressuring my daughter to keep her baby, and not let "those butchers kill it.

    She will lie about anything.

  • Posted By: jromol @ 11/09/2007 2:16:39 AM

    well forced-sterilization isn't. and im pretty sure thats what you're talking about.

  • Posted By: jromol @ 11/09/2007 2:16:21 AM

    b/c sterilization isn't a choice.

  • Posted By: jnewsweek @ 11/08/2007 11:20:37 AM

    I haven't seen any statistics about how many women/girls have more than one abortion or how many used birth control before they got pregnant. As for the women who social services thing shouldn't have any more children, why not use sterilization?

  • Posted By: joanneroy @ 10/22/2007 8:43:53 PM

    Safe and professional... are you kidding??? Why don't you go tell Eileen Smith From MA how safe and professional the abortion was that killed her 20 year old daughter Laura Hope Smith 5 weeks ago?? I bet that will make her feel much better about her dauthers death! Why don't you go talk to all those women who have filed lawsuits and won against the "professional" abortionists that have sexually assualted to them before, during and after their abortions! Roe V Wade may have made abortion legal, but I sure as heck wouldn't call it "safe" or "professional!!" Abortion emotionally, psychologically and in many, many cases, physically harms women!! Let's not forget the fact that a child always die in the process! WOMEN, ABORTION DID NOT LIBERATE US!! The ability to throw our children down a garbage disposal did not liberate US!! It has done the exact opposite- it has given men the ability to use us and throw us way. What dishonorable man wouldn't want the ability to have responsibility-free sex??? Most importantly, you will be burdened by the emotional consequences b/c nothing in life is free! The burden of guilt, sorrow and regret is not liberation!!

    • Posted By: NurseKate @ 11/02/2007 7:30:20 PM

      If your main concern is the safety and standards of abortion clinics just try and imagine what kind of black market chop-shops would be set up if abortion where to be illegal. We would lose countless desperate women/ teens to suicide and self inflicted abortions if these clinics were not available. My great (married) grandmother died of a bacterial infection after attempting to give herself an abortion with a coat hanger in 1930.
      Secondly- HOW MANY CRACK BABIES HAVE YOU ADOPTED? Yes. There are thousands of people waiting to adopt babies...in MOST cases: white babies. If there were a line around the block for black brain damaged babies born of drug abusing mothers then you might have a point but that is simply NOT reality.

  • Posted By: maya9864 @ 10/20/2007 9:54:07 AM

    unless they are willing to pay for the maternity clothes, the birth in the hospital, health insurance and maintenance for that child, nobody but the woman with the womb should be able to make these decisions.
    If you're that worried about human rights go protest about poverty and war in third world countries where people die every day.

    • Posted By: kseed @ 10/20/2007 2:41:49 PM

      People should think these things before they have sex. Aborting a child because of "the cost" is selfish. If you are mature enough to have sex, you should be mature enough to deal with the outcomes.

      • Posted By: mom-of-three @ 11/02/2007 1:52:23 PM

        kseed- In a perfect world that is the way all woman and men would think, but we do not live in a perfect world. REALITY people is that people(especially teens and young twentysomethings) are having sex and most are unprotected. Do you think that we should just tell them well you chose to have sex so you have to have the baby and ruin more lives. I'm not just talking about the young individuals that decided to have sex, what about the child that will be born. Born into a family that wasn't ready, left to be raised by grandparents that were ready to retire, raised in a home with abuse or neglect due to immaturity, etc.... I work with children everyday, and see the MANY parents that could careless about there children. They leave them with me as often as they can because they do not want the responsibility of dealing with the tantrums, the messes they make, changing the dirty diapers, potty training , having to take the time to play and entertain them. This is what I see and it's sad because these are the people that wanted those babies, so can you imagine the babies being born that were unwanted or were not ready. How do you think their lives are? I bet they are BAD at best and many are worse than that. We are talking about a child here being raised not a puppy. IT IS A HUGE UNDERTAKING!!!, even for me whom waited till I was 29 to have my first. So for us to force girls and women to be mothers is not right for these babies. AND for everyone to say well just give it up for adoption there are many families waiting to adopt. There are many babies out there all ready that NEED adopted. OH, but they are not the perfect babies they are the ones that were taken away because they were born to drug addicted mothers, were in abusive homes and are now being raised in foster homes, until the legal rights of the parents can be taken away. In the mean time that child grows and who wants to adopt an older child that now has issues. So you prolifers need to stop using that argument because we have 1000's of unwanted children in this country now so to have another one added to that is crazy.

      • Posted By: equalrightsforall @ 10/20/2007 4:55:25 PM

        So we should legislate this? But what about all those kids who have sex before they are mature? They are out there, so we can't say they don't exist. Do we just ignore them? Do we provide education? Do we lock them up until they are mature enough? And what about the women that have abortions because of other reasons (other than "the cost")? In an ideal world, maybe you could say "if you are mature enough to have sex, you should be mature enough to deal with the outcomes" - but that is not just reality. As such, I don't understand legislating based on that assumption.

    • Posted By: equalrightsforall @ 10/20/2007 4:33:28 PM

      Although I completely agree with your comments about women having complete rights over their own bodies, I don't understand why you don't think this is an important human rights issue. In my mind this is one of the most basic of human rights issues - for women to have as much power over their own bodies, lives, and decisions as men have over theirs. This is a human rights issue that is not just tied to the debate over reproductive choice as we discuss here, but also tied to male domination over women around the world. It would not be too hard to tie unequal power distribution to poverty and war as you indicate, but I won't preach too much (more). The point I'm trying to make is that this is a human rights issue, and that your argument would be stronger if you recognized it as such.

    • Posted By: jacksmaid @ 10/20/2007 2:25:25 PM

      excellent comments

  • Posted By: TaylorWNY @ 10/21/2007 9:49:11 AM

    What really makes a mother? Someone who selfishly believes that without money, without complete education or family support should try and raise a child alone? Or a young pregnant girl who cannot understand the full impact of her decision one way or another keeps her child? Or a victim of assult or rape that looks into the eyes of the child and doesn't see a miracle? Who gives anyone but me the right to decide for me that I am ready to be a mother? There are several forms a punishment. Sometimes creating life for life's sake is imposing a sentence of hell.

    • Posted By: justice and mercy @ 10/22/2007 7:10:36 PM

      Once you had unprotected sex you decided you were ready for pregnancy, one that child began to form in the womb it was life or it could have have begun to form, once you choose to end that life that is forming you choose to kill it, it's that simple. If i squash a spider I kill it, it is smaller than a fetus but both are life, no matter how it is concieved..it is life, even if by rape ( which I was) it is still life, a life that didn't ask to be concieved but was selfishly concieved and selfishly thrown away. Life is life no matter the stage of maturity. I mean for heavensakes, they are looking for life on the moon, any life , including wayward spores, thay would hold a major press conference over the life they found on mars, is a child less than a spore?

      • Posted By: mom-of-three @ 11/02/2007 1:27:40 PM

        I was just reading up on these post and was appalled by poster justice and mercy. You say you were raped so my question is did you conceive a child from that act? IF NOT, how can you say to someone else that they must go through with the pregnancy, labor and deliver that child after such a tramatic experience. I was raped and became pregnant from it and yes I did abort that FETUS. I do not feel any guilt for the decision I made as it was the right one for ME!!!! I didn't have a choice when I was violated and became pregnant but I was going to have a choice on what happened to me after that. EVERY WOMAN should have that choice whether you believe in it or not, YOUR believes should not be PUSHED onto others. That is what makes our country so great because we have a right to make our own choices. If you do not like our wonderful countries rights and wish to have our rights continually taken away from us then do us all a favor and go live in another country with a dictator that will tell you how to live!!! I for one like my freedoms I have in this country, and proud of my husband whom has served our country for the last 18 years. He continually is serving, defending and fighting for the very rights you all complain about and it makes me sick!!!

    • Posted By: justice and mercy @ 10/22/2007 7:13:00 PM

      have you ever looked into the eyes of a child and not seen a miracle? Taht child even a product of rape was fearfully and wonderfull made in the womb, the very thought of a child not being a miracle any child, wanted or unwanted, is ludicris.

  • Posted By: JessLynn @ 10/19/2007 11:23:12 PM

    So what is the message to men? Where is their responsibility? How is it that there are two people involved in making a child, and yet here we are discussing how a WOMAN "needs to take responsibility for her actions." But that's exactly what this about--this child that was created by two people--then becomes one person's "problem." I'm not sure how comfortable I am with men making decisions about this, having such strong opinions on this--when this is not a situation they will ever have to face. I'm not saying they shouldn't have a say with their own child, but where are they during this decision making process?

    • Posted By: equalrightsforall @ 10/20/2007 4:47:33 PM

      My response to this would be that it is the woman's CHOICE to bring the man in, not her duty. Yes, there were two people that joined together, and now the woman is pregnant - but men will never have a womb, never have to plan their lives around an unplanned pregnancy, never have to change the way they eat, drink, exercise, sleep, etc. in order to properly care for the growing fetus, go through childbirth, etc... As such, they have no right to tell women what to do and that includes forcing themselves into the decision-making process. If the woman wants him there, then yes, he should be there. But, again, her body, her choice. Anything else amounts to an unequal distibution of power.

      • Posted By: random black guy @ 11/01/2007 6:41:33 PM

        replyto equalrightsforall: sure, it's a woman's choice to bring a man in, but we are not just bystanders. whatever the decision may be, it will affect the father in some way. If you choose to keep your baby, then hopefully the father will be in the picture to help with rearing the child. If not, then at least consider and discuss it. if he chooses not to play a role, then so be it. It seems you have a dim view of men, maybe from your past or present situation. But there are men who have to plan our lives around a unplanned pregnancy and children, who do have to change the way we sleep and eat, exercise, book sto read and classes to go to. We are called husbands and fathers. I am a husband to my lovely wife and a father to my son. I had to change the way I slept, Because of late night feedings and chasing imaginary monsters from under t he bed. I had to exercise more so I can be around for his life ( i.e get in shape), learn to cook for a baby and toddler, and watch the sugar content in juice bottles for my son ( there is so much sugar in those!) Our pregnancy was unplanned, but as a husband I was there and as a father i am having a blast. Yes, there are still men who want to be married. Yes, there are even black men like myself who want and enjoy being fathers! I love making mac and cheese for my little guy, playing in our blow up ball pit, and listening to disney songs with my wife and son. Yes, it is the womans choice, but to alienate the guy in the process is ignorant and inviting problems. Please get some help becaise you views on men is very dismal. Excuse, I have to go pick my son up from daycare and feed him his late afternoon snack, then playtime, then dinner and a bath, then a story before bed. But, hey, I have NO RIGHT, correct?.

  • Posted By: sauceybelle @ 10/30/2007 4:34:04 PM

    It never ceases to amaze me that throughout history there remains a segment of our society that feel justified in telling women what to do with our bodies. To all women who enjoy the freedoms we now have, and have had for about 50 years only, you better keep up withthis movement. As the access to abortion has dwindled, so has access to birth control pills and the morning after. If religious fanatic pharmacists can refuse to fill presecriptions at drugstores, what is next...forced child birth, no birth control like thrid world contries? Wake up women of America!

  • Posted By: daniellenicole @ 10/30/2007 12:50:00 AM

    I have been reading the previous posts here for the better part of an hour, and I find it deeply disappointing that regardless of what you believe or what the next person believes ought to be done about the abortion issue, it seems to be a frequently ignored point that although abortion is an age old woe for many (and for many reasons) the constitution makes no mention of the legality or the morality of the practice.

  • Posted By: Mark Carwford @ 10/29/2007 9:50:42 PM

    Well that explains a lot about what is wrong with Angela Michael.

    She screams at and physically assaults the other prolifers, and she has screamed at the clinic employees and the women going in.

    So it must be the exhaust fumes from the RV she lives in.

  • Posted By: jromol @ 10/26/2007 4:51:31 PM

    the foster care system is not the same as the pro-choice/pro-life argument. if we just focused on fixing the foster care system, they could take away our rights while we aren't paying attention. we need to keep fighting to keep abortion legal (and to regain the rights that we've lost) while at the same time working on the foster care system. we can't just ignore the "political" battle. but personally, i am doing both. i'm going to school right to work in the social services so that i help to fix the foster care system, whie at the same time being an adamant defender and fighter for our rights to our bodies.

  • Posted By: jacksmaid @ 10/20/2007 2:24:18 PM

    Comment: I am so tired of hearing about rights of the the "unborn child" and "Baby-killers". Get over yourselves already. It's not a child it's a fetus. Just like an egg is not a chicken. If it were, either scrambled eggs would be outlawed OR *** (rooster) fights would be legal. You can't have it both ways

    • Posted By: georgemason @ 10/25/2007 1:43:28 PM

      Please speak for yourself only. I never consider humans (including unborns) in the par as animals. However, If you think you are an animal, knock yourself out...

  • Posted By: h7373 @ 10/25/2007 3:36:40 AM

    Why don't you all focus your energy on the current foster care system. These are the children that are already born and don't have good loving homes. If half the energy that is spent on the pro-life, pro- choice argument, our current foster care system could fixed.

  • Posted By: jromol @ 10/24/2007 1:19:14 AM

    (i keep trying to post this and its not coming up, but here is the post continued:) women didn't get such a stigman and face such consequences for being sinlge and pregnant (especially when they are young), people weren't facing so much financial struggle, the social services system wasn't so off, men learned to stop raping, the religious/conservative right stopped spewing out bullshit "facts" to teenagers that prevent them from getting the proper education and health care that they needed to not get pregnant (b/c like i said. people are going ot have sex no matter what), men learned to start sticking with their families intead of leaving them, our welfare program was more progressive and effective, etc etc. abortion is a necessity for people of every race and class. it affects people all over no matter who they are. at the moment, abortion is a necessity. i wish it weren't but it is.

  • Posted By: jromol @ 10/24/2007 1:13:01 AM

    (continued) people weren't getting pregnant against their will or by accident and there wasn't such a stigma around being a pregnant single (especially when they are young) female and people weren't struggling so much financially and the religious conservative right weren't spewing out bullshit "facts" and preventing children from getting proper sexual education and men learned to stop raping, etc. etc. it goes on and on. (sorry agian for the typos, i can't see the bottom once it gets too long)

  • Posted By: jromol @ 10/24/2007 1:08:53 AM

    i don't care. he's pro-lfie now. he could have been lying when he said that too. and do you honestly think that they know the exact number of people dying from illegal abortions? regardless. one is too many. and thats just in our country. what about world wide? maybe 2 million waiting to adopt a baby. but even so, it's so hard to adopt these days and so many babies end up in the foster care system regardless of the people waiting to adopt. and again, i don't believe the pro-life propaganda. i don't doubt that there are some abortionists who have killed (actually i do doubt that one.), abused, or raped, but how many normal doctors do you thjink do that? and people imn every other profession. again that holds no standing. sorry. and again with the killing thing, more women die from pregnancy complications than abortion every year. shoudl we stop that too? i'm sorry. but abortion is a a necessity. there is no question that it needs to be legal. at least until we have the proper resources and education and economic system and oppurtunities for everyone everywhere that

  • Posted By: joanneroy @ 10/23/2007 8:00:07 AM

    Here our the exact words of Bernard Nathanson, one of the founding fathers of NARAL that helped legalize abortion. "We aroused enough sympathy to sell our program of permissive abortion by fabricating the number of illegal abortions done annually in the U.S. The actual figure was approaching 100,000 but
    the figure we gave to the media repeatedly was 1,000,000. Repeating the big lie often enough convinces the public. The number of women dying from illegal abortions was around 200-250 annually. The figure we constantly fed to the media was 10,000." This former abortionist admits to the fact that the numbers were hugely exaggerated! So I ask you, where did you get your figures??
    Most importantly, should the law be faulted for making it difficult for women to kill their children??
    Lastly, there are 2 million couples waiting to adopt, so the child you believe would be better off dead actually would be immediately adopted by a loving family, not put in the foster system. Do me a favor and do a little research on abortionist who have killed, abused, hidden rape, etc.. and you'd be surprised by how many there are out there. Also look around at how many women have been seriously harmed or even killed by abortionists- there are a lot more out there than you'd think! An industry that kills children is a bad egg!

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