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  • Posted By: RiTZ @ 11/02/2007 6:01:23 PM

    "And this is what God has testified: He has given us eternal life, and this life is in his son. Whoever has the son has life, whoever does not have the son does not have life. I have written this to those of you who believe in the name of the son of God so that you may know that you have eternal life."

    Does this sound like a threat to you?

  • Posted By: knicknaime @ 11/02/2007 5:56:19 PM

    WOKEN up? Back in the days when English was our national language, she would have AWAKENED. I am sick of so-called writers and editors WHO (not "that") don't know grammar. Shame on you Newsweek.

  • Posted By: Spockman @ 11/02/2007 3:52:59 PM

    Define "quality men" FINEWINE. I bet what you write as your definition is nothing like what you are actually looking for.

    • Posted By: finewine @ 11/02/2007 5:54:42 PM

      Spockman

      Examples of my perfect guy would be Bill Hemmer or the player Kaka. I think men with dark good looks, intelligence, morals, and ambition.

  • Posted By: nikkilynn @ 11/02/2007 5:45:18 PM

    One parent, two parents, 18 parents??? There is no recipe for the success of an individual child. There is no fool-proof formula PEOPLE!! Open your eyes and your mind! And to DFord...If I want to have my cake and eat it too, I WILL. I EARNED IT!!!

    • Posted By: Newphoenix84 @ 11/02/2007 5:49:50 PM

      Some one needs to get laid!

      • Posted By: nikkilynn @ 11/02/2007 5:54:40 PM

        Hmmmm...what does THAT have to do with anything? What if you knew that I am happily married? Maybe it is you that needs to "get laid". Get some class...

  • Posted By: tissababe @ 11/02/2007 5:15:26 PM

    Being a stay at home Mom is the most selfless and glorious act that a woman can do in this life. It is a gift for their children. And the only way to accomplish this is to have a wonderful husband who is willing to work for his family, and to come home and offer to their kids only what a father can offer. Men and women are different, FOR A REASON!! It is a beautiful and glorious thing that God intended! We need to embrace the difference, not try to become asexual. I don't care what amazingly accomplished woman you are, no woman has all the attributes that equal to what a Dad and a Mom can offer to their children.

    • Posted By: keana30 @ 11/02/2007 5:54:18 PM

      Good lord, you take your religion to the vomit level and your restricted view is not wrong, it should not however, be seen as the one and only way. It seems to me that you should invent a time machine and travel to a time and place where things are exactly the way you have dreamed them to be. Hey, maybe you zap yourself to the sermon on the mount and ask Jesus himself if your views on society are correct.

    • Posted By: Gigi2007 @ 11/02/2007 5:25:51 PM

      Count your blessings! Good for you that you found a wonderful man who is willing to take on his responsibilities and keeping his commitment.

  • Posted By: romapiba @ 11/02/2007 5:52:58 PM

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  • Posted By: ll_aok79 @ 11/02/2007 5:37:33 PM

    Let's be clear what it is that we are arguing- I myself was raised excellently by a single mother who made a poor choice in her marriage and I turned out just fine. That is not the argument that is being raised here. The question is: Is it better to have two loving parents as opposed to one? NOT can kids grow up to be good people without a dad? Keep in mind also, it does NOT take a village to raise a child. That just seems to me a way of saying, "I don't have to fix that behavior because my kid's teachers/friends/other relatives will." That statement is the antithesis of accountability!

    • Posted By: ella-4ever @ 11/02/2007 5:49:37 PM

      I was not trying to imply that other people are responsible for teaching children things the parent (s) are not. I thought all of what I wrote was explaining that children are influenced by their environment which includes people in their lives who are not their parents. and yes you are right is it better fir a child to be loved by on or two parents? of course the more love the better I was just trying to explain that if you only have love from one does not mean you will suffer.

  • Posted By: cowdragon @ 11/02/2007 5:49:37 PM

    I call him Yaweh because he is one of many Gods and Goddesses and refering to him as "God" would be misleading. Unfortunatley the name "Strife" was already taken by the Greeks and Romans pantheons, so I use the name you would recognise him by. ;)

    And I realized that I mistyped "torture" a post or two down, lol.

  • Posted By: RiTZ @ 11/02/2007 5:48:26 PM

    cowdragon\
    He does not rule out of fear, but out of love and abundance of life. And just because Lithoman is a prfessed christian does ot mean he is mature in his walk with the Lord although i do believe that God will do great things for him sence he is attempting to stand up for the Lord.

  • Posted By: ll_aok79 @ 11/02/2007 5:46:46 PM

    There are always two parts to the equation: In this case man and woman. The fact that we need each other is ever presented in the ways we seek each other out. Contentment and generosity abound in a marriage that strives for the greater good. And heaven knows this world could use a whole lot more!

  • Posted By: columella602 @ 11/02/2007 5:44:57 PM

    i think a woman who chooses to have a child should have evaluated herself if this is really what she wants. If she is emotionally financially and physically capable of raising her child then why not do it. Even if you are married before having one there is no security. A woman should be in sound mind and is ready about everything that happens when she decides to have baby. She could be single less than a year after the baby is born or become a widow. Who knows....

  • Posted By: cowdragon @ 11/02/2007 5:43:11 PM

    RiTZ and Lithoman

    two christians telling two different afterlifes! Who would have thought it.

    Also, once again, you made my point for me. I REFUSE to worship any deity who rules out of fear. If eternal tarture is the cost of knowing I did what was right, then I'm cool with that.

    also, the word is spelled "Imagination" ;)

    aaaaannnnnd back on topic, yours is not the only opinion or religion on this planet, we must accomodate everyone. Therefore, I don't give a rat's ass what your god says these women should do, they have a better idea of what they need. And why, if your god is so perfect, would he put a biological clock into these ladies if he didn't want them to do something about it???

  • Posted By: jreyec @ 11/02/2007 5:40:18 PM

    Does anyone really beleive a single mom or a single dad can raise a child as well as 2 loving parents. Sure there are situations where it is unavoidable and those situations are regretable, but when we start deliberately starting families with only one parent you can't tell me that is in the best interest of our society or that child. There are consequences to all our actions and somebody always pays those consequences. It may not be the mom who decides for whatever the reason that she is going to have a "fatherless" child but somebody pays. Often its the child but ask any educator about what the effect of single parent homes is having on our schools and our society at large .

  • Posted By: RiTZ @ 11/02/2007 5:39:46 PM

    It is interesting that you are still reffering to him as Yaweh though isnt it. Do you know what Yaweh means? Do you know where it is derived from. You see in the word Yaweh his glory is revealed and there is no denying it. I am glad we agree on this.

  • Posted By: amanintexas @ 11/02/2007 5:05:55 PM

    Having a baby from a sperm bank is totally wrong, it is against the nature of human beings where a man marrying a woman will be equale to a family which is the first cell forming the society. The situation cannot be solved at the age of 40, a woman should consider having a husband since her 20's which is not the case of most girls in this country. Prefering the "boyfriend" most of the girls will be wasting their time and their life until they woke up but at that time it is too late.

    • Posted By: keana30 @ 11/02/2007 5:37:58 PM

      To: amanintexas. I am a woman in Texas and you must be from a small town based on your short sided view of "society." I guess you are living in a fantasy land where, boy meets girl, and they fall in love and live happily ever after. I guess your society doesn't have men who leave women and don't support the children they have fathered, or single mothers and fathers with dead beat ex's, or walking sperm donors who don't have enough care, or responsibility to keep it in their pants. Your society seems to consist of non-violence, zero divorce rate, rainbows and butterflies. I'm not saying I advocate where our society is today, but that is how it is, get it? That is how society is. At least these mothers are strong, financially stable, and independent. They are old enough and mature enough to make their own decisions. Bravo, for the ones who are doing it, they are the ones who have to deal with all the weight gain, stretch marks, morning sickness, emotional based hormonal changes.

  • Posted By: RiTZ @ 11/02/2007 5:37:16 PM

    cowdragon
    See that is where you are wrong again. I wont spend eternity telling him how great he is(even though he is) i will be in relationship with him which is all i want and which is all he wants from me. And you want simply fail to be there you will be tortured. Emagine breathing in fire and feeling you lungs burn only to have them restored back to new and burned again and again, and again. Emagine you skin melting off only to be put right back on and melting off again and again. This short life that i give to the Lord is well worth the sacrifice.

  • Posted By: cowdragon @ 11/02/2007 5:36:21 PM

    RiTZ

    your self contradictions astound me.

    Yaweh loves us so much he will torture us forever if we don't listen to him? WOW! I guess I hate my kids because I read stories to them, I tell them I love them, I hold them, I play with them, I teach them resposiblitiy, and my list of absolute child-hating goes on a long ways.

  • Posted By: AgradZ @ 11/02/2007 5:36:16 PM

    Last time I checked, men were still the overwhelming majority in this country. So if women's lib is sending this country down the toilet then you can thank male voters for standing behind them.

  • Posted By: Dford @ 11/02/2007 5:34:48 PM

    To all the women that bash and rip men, please remember that these men are also the children you claim to love. Girls, you can't have your cake and eat it too, even though that's what you think you're entiteled to..

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