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  • Posted By: Tipemone @ 11/14/2007 3:06:11 PM

    If any word is good enough for any race to use it, than it is good for all races to use it, not just blacks. Besides, at this point in time N I G G E R no longer implies the black race, it is what it is a shiftless, lazy person, no matter the color. Blacks have recently used this too bolster their argument that any person other than black that says that is a racist while they profess that their meaning is different. Funny that whiteboy, peckerwood, cracker, whitetrash- none of those are the W-words. Give me a break, just another reason for the black race to scream inequality and racism.

  • Posted By: erikalynn @ 11/13/2007 2:36:46 PM

    In regards to Marine#1 @'s comment, apparently you dont know the history of this word and what it was used for. I do, however, agree that everyone should stop using this word, but your comments dont have any merit. Apparently you have not considered the fact that some of the soliders overseas that are fighting for this "great country" of ours(and in the past wars ie. Civil War, WWI, WWII), are Afr. American and would not appreciate you taking that word so lightly.. It just goes to show that Racism has never left this country even though we are in 2007/2008, its just now people are getting "caught" saying it. Maybe Marine #1, the next time you post a comment you would take in condsideration the subject matter .

    • Posted By: Marine#1 @ 11/14/2007 8:12:37 AM

      LOL, Why dont you re-read what was said. Obviously you paid no attention to what was said. Try again. There is nothing I said wrong. I have black friends who happen to agree. I beieve your angry because I wont kiss your ass. It is what it is.I have heard the word before ya know. My friends realize we dont live in the "Civil War, WWI, WWII," era anymore. If the man beside me in combat is a black man then he is just another man. I have his back and he has mine. I dont use the word cause I have better things to say, but I find it idiotic the people who *** about it are using it. So since your so highly intelligent, you tell me when Honky, Cracker, beaner, spick, ***, and wetback are going to stop being used. They dont need to be used either. What makes the "N-word "so much worse? So OH Intelligent one the Afr. Americans arent the only ones experiencing it. I am aware of the word and what it was and is used for and it is screwed up. My question to you is are you so dumb you think that the whites, Hispanics, and Asians arent offended by what is said of them? Of course, but we shrug it off and go on with our life. Black comedians have nothing better to do than talk about "white people" for example. It get sold after a while, but oh la la life goes on. Also, no kidding racism hasnt left this country. No matter how anyone uses any word it will always be present regardless of how you feel. Again GET OVER IT.

  • Posted By: genie1 @ 11/09/2007 10:36:12 AM

    Its good to see white people who take a stand against "black america"! For my whole life text books and TV shows had tried brainwashing everyone into thinking we owe black people something. I dont owe anyboby anything but myself...and that is to be a proud, hardworking, mother, wife, and friend. I shouldnt have to go out of my way to be nice to a people who have absolutely no respect for anything or anybody...people who dont work...people that get my tax money to pay for their welfare and their college educations. Yet all you ever hear about is reperations..reperation...I think you get your reperations...your just too stupid to realize or appreciate it. I am a proud white woman and I refuse to let society try and make me feel ashamed of myself for being white...it'll never happen! There should be another NAACP....National Association for the Advancement of Caucsian People!! We need it too and we deserve it!!

    • Posted By: poeticdee @ 11/14/2007 12:06:23 AM

      At first I wasn't going to entertain you but it appears as if you need a prayer. I will pray for you as well as your kids. The only one who has been brainwashed is you. I'm not talking about the N word or the fact that you think you owe a black person anything. You're right, you don't. However, you do owe your family the right to learn about people of all races because one day your dumb butt won't be around and the kids will be too ignorant to know that everyone in one race isn't lazy and on welfare. It appears as if you're the one who fit this criteria because you seem to be undereducated. In areas where I live, there are more white women on the streets in black ghettos than there are black. Who's paying for their kids that are in the system as well as the ones that are not just black but all races? I own my own cars (paid in full), I worked and my family works also. My grandfather left this physical life not having any unpaid debts. God forbid if one of your children get sick and needs a life saving operation and someone shows up who has been on welfare and used your (our) tax money to get an education have to save their lives... genie1, God loves you and so do I...

    • Posted By: 1justice @ 11/12/2007 4:26:09 PM

      Poor genie...maybe you should start the association. However, it's probably best that you learn how to spell Caucasian first.

      • Posted By: jackson123343 @ 11/13/2007 10:31:38 PM

        If you really knew anything about American history you would be dumbfounded. But you already are. The reason whites will not tell the true story of American history is because it would show what kind of horrible people your ancestors were. There is alot more than meets the eye on all of this. Whites are still trying to cover up history and they know if the truth comes out they will have even more to be unproud of..

    • Posted By: 1justice @ 11/12/2007 4:19:13 PM

      Why don't you start the Association...and by the way learn how to spell Caucasian. Maybe you should be ashamed of your writing abilities or the lack there of.

  • Posted By: poeticdee @ 11/13/2007 11:22:36 PM

    First of all to the low and narrow minded comments that were made earlier, it is ridiculous to think that racism isn't a major issue today. Even before Jena six a noose was hang on my uncle's truck and it was also keyed(scratched). Here is a man who has pushed and strived to attain respect in his community and also has his own business yet you seem to think if he doesn't like the way he's treated he should leave this country in which Africans built to begin with? That is not complaining, that is not taking the bull crap from some racist who can't stand the fact that he is who he is and he has what he has! A good job, an education and a good life. And I will never thank my ancestors for taking a beating so that I could be free! Freedom doesn't exist in this country anymore for me as wellas for you.True enough we are in a better country than most and we have a lot of avenues to take to better ourselves but let's be honest, it is simply not available for everyone and all communities. And I find it hard to believe you've never complained about anything in your life. The N word is just what it is. No wrong or right way to use in this case because someone said it best, even if we decided to stop using it amongst our race, you and others like you will still use it... I'm not going to comment on the Jews because they have gone through a lot also but if you do your research, there are still hate crimes and comments gainst them as well. Also, all blacks don't follow leaders because they're black some of us are educated enough to know what's right from wrong. I guess we could say the same thing about caucasion americans, they follow white leaders or face the wrath, don't believe me ASK GEORGE W. BUSH...

  • Posted By: Human Frailty @ 11/13/2007 10:35:17 PM

    Good Lord, save us from ourselves. We are all angry--the world hurts us. We transfer that anger onto family and unknowns. We take delight in shaming family and unknowns, because we have been taught to do so. Too often, I am also this way. Apparently we will all continue to suffer until we open our hearts to love. God save us.

    • Posted By: jackson123343 @ 11/13/2007 10:42:51 PM

      This is the best comment I have seen out here. We should all ask God to heal this racist, full of hatred country. While we use and bicker over this nonsense, this country is falling apart. I guarantee there will be posts after this blaming Blacks for that too. Yes, God save us all.

    • Posted By: Human Frailty @ 11/13/2007 10:39:31 PM

      Amen

  • Posted By: laurelpatterson @ 11/13/2007 10:39:43 PM

    Like the slaves mentioned by the previous writer the Jews who suffered during the Holocaust are fir the most part no longer living. Maybe the arguement is not are the people who suffered these horrible acts still alive, but what is the leagcy of such horrible acts on the living decendents. Here is the point, apartheid (Jim Crow/Segregation) existed in the US until 1968 an entire century after slavery ended. How long after 1968 did those festering resentments and attitudes last? How many people blamed and continue to blame Jews for the sons and daughters dying in World War II? How many people because of religious reasons consider Jews the enemy? I am not saying one groups suffering has been worse than the other. What I am suggesting is that no issue is just black and white (pun intended). Put your own biases away and think

  • Posted By: whhsgurl @ 11/09/2007 6:51:10 AM

    I think that the N word is not appropriate, but all of the black people use it, so stop mouthing about it. i understand the history of all of this, but if they bring it up and call us names, then we should be able to use that. not so much to be racist, but to be fair. I think that the "Black America" has pushed this issue too far and it is ridiculous. grow up

    • Posted By: jackson123343 @ 11/13/2007 10:36:22 PM

      Yours is such a stupid comment. All of you need a real history lesson. I don't see the media, film industry or record industry going around promoting the words Cracker or Redneck at every turn to our youth, and making money off of it. White folks will never change, I don't know why anybody is looking for a change in them. Hatred and injustice is breed in mostly all of whites..

    • Posted By: yogurtman @ 11/09/2007 9:33:30 AM

      You are so right. They are just looking for something to gripe about.

  • Posted By: bethe @ 11/06/2007 10:47:11 PM

    WHY IS IT ONLY WHITES CAN BE RACIST?

    • Posted By: tander @ 11/07/2007 2:02:15 PM

      Comment: HoooRaaa!!!! We don't celebrate White History Month. We do however, have a Black History Month and a Native American Heritage Month. We don't remember the birthday of every major person in history who helped this nation along and why should we celebrate Cinco De Mayo, this is the USA not Mexico, do they celebrate July 4th?

      • Posted By: jackson123343 @ 11/13/2007 10:25:49 PM

        Read the dictionary racist. Then answer your own question.

  • Posted By: jackson123343 @ 11/13/2007 10:22:34 PM

    I am so sick of hearing whites say " get over it, you all use the n word, so why can't we"? I don't like the use of the word by blacks or whites or anybody else. It is not all blacks that condone this first of all. And even if we did as a people stop using the word, whites and other races wouldn't stop using the word. So white folks get out of denial stage please. Stop making stupid excuses. What if we called you Crackers in public?

  • Posted By: frankcapone @ 11/13/2007 10:11:10 PM

    Black people (or is it colored? negro? the other white meat?) are pissed off and the best thing is to focus it on is something that happened hundreds of years ago, by no one alive today, to no one alive today. Hold on to that grudge as long as you can, because as soon as people get tired of hearing you complain about what can't be controlled, your case is closed. Jews had is much worse, as they were exterminated, not clothed and fed for work done. I'm not saying slavery was not a bad thing, but unless you were a slave, get over it. Jews have more right to be upset, but instead they have struggled for success amongst the same hurdles. Instead of complaining about your plight, get down on your knees and thank your ancestors for suffering the way they did, so you could be born here. If it is so hard to be back in America, thanks to Lincoln, you are now free to leave.

  • Posted By: redwingii @ 11/13/2007 9:07:13 PM

    The Jena Six wrongly attacked a young man who had nothing to do with the hanging of nooses; and the attackers are very familiar with the police, because they have been ikn trouble before. They just saw the chance to attack someone. And black Africans sold their brothers into slavery, long before there was an America to sell them to. If theree are slavers today, they take the form of Al Sharpton, and other black leaders, who have sold the black vote to the Democrats for decades. A black man today, if he makes it on his own, is not permitted to have his own opinion, he must toe the line, or face the wrath of black leaders. Don't believe me? As Bill Cosby. Ask Colin Powell... his years of sevice to America got him labeled a house slave, b y someone who's biggest claim to fame if the "Banana Boat" song.

  • Posted By: redcuba @ 11/13/2007 6:32:47 PM

    Amerikkkas nightmare. the problem is that history created this problem, the actions of anglo saxons treating those with darker skin less than human. Its not that Dog used the the word, its the thought behind it. And I can't say that its his fault directly, thats how he was raised. The default reasoning behind the "i'm not a racist" comment is "I have black friends, many of my co workers are black,etc. No, no, and NO!!!! The problem is buried deep within the culture of white amerikkka. In 2007/2008 this country still wants to crack the whip on the backs of black men especially. So the public outcry over the word is nothing but a political front to massage the house ***. Well, i'm not buying it at all, just another form of slavery. Amerikkka created the *** by destroying the identity and turning men into slaves. Amerikkka raped our women and eradicated families, for more than 400 years!! If you plant the seed of a tree today and come back 400 years later, that seed will be a great tree. White Amerikkka's best bet would be to avoid that word like Bush has avoided BinLaden. Anerikkka created my hate, discontent, ghettoes, created crack to kill us and outrageous sentencing for for offenders!!! When amerikkka takes the boot of of our necks, then maybe things can be different. When we have issues like Jena 6, in 2007, we have a long way to go!!!

  • Posted By: singlemom3 @ 11/13/2007 3:32:18 PM

    Had a black celebrity used the "N" word for any reason, rap song, joke, conversation, etc., it would be no big deal. Why is America so super-sensitive that the second a white person uses the same word they are crucified? Blacks call whites names. Every culture on earth seems to have some derrogatory word for other cultures but you never hear the commotion raised over any of them. Knock it off America. Get thicker skin. These words will NEVER go away.

  • Posted By: erikalynn @ 11/13/2007 2:16:10 PM

    Referring to Marine#1 comment(s), apparently you are not educated enough of the history of this word and yes I do agree that we should stop it altogether. However, you cannot comment on a subject that you dont know fully of or understand. This word is negative and brings offense to those directed to. You say that there are soliders in other countries dying, well some of those soliders are Afr. American and would want that word abolished too! It goes to show that Racism is still going strong even though we are in 2007/2008. Youre complete ignorance is a reflection of your incompetence of this and maybe you should keep such comments to yourself in the near future

  • Posted By: Marine#1 @ 11/13/2007 12:01:24 PM

    This whole ordeal is stupid. Everyone is so eat up about the "N-word". Maybe I've lost my mind, but who is on these wanna be gangster rappers who are using the word. If ya want the word to die out then STOP USING IT. That seems pretty damn easy to me. We got men and women over in that hellhole dying and all you people can worry about is who said the N-word this time. Get a life, if you hear it and dont feel it applies to you then ignore it. The typical American way these days is to see who can make who miserable. I find it strange also how an apology is acceptable from states who participated in slavery, which was a big deal but an apology from a man who used the "N-word" isnt good enough. People just be people and stop getting so offended all the time. People are going to do stupid things especially in our country cause we abuse freedom really badly. Think about it, in other countries you have no rights. You are garbage to them in more ways than your different colors. They dont see your colors overseas, they see your an American black or white and to them thats an awful thing to be called. There is no "N-word" there. They want to kill us all. GET OVER IT.

  • Posted By: Marine#1 @ 11/13/2007 11:59:54 AM

    This whole ordeal is stupid. Everyone is so eat up about the "N-word". Maybe I've lost my mind, but who is on these wanna be gangster rappers who are using the word. If ya want the word to die out then STOP USING IT. That seems pretty damn easy to me. We got men and women over in that hellhole dying and all you people can worry about is who said the N-word this time. Get a life, if you hear it and dont feel it applies to you then ignore it. The typical American way these days is to see who can make who miserable. I find it strange also how an apology is acceptable from states who participated in slavery, which was a big deal but an apology from a man who used the "N-word" isnt good enough. People just be people and stop getting so offended all the time. People are going to do stupid things especially in our country cause we abuse freedom really badly. Think about it, in other countries you have no rights. You are garbage to them in more ways than your different colors. They dont see your colors overseas, they see your an American black or white and to them thats an awful thing to be called. There is no "N-word" there. They want to kill us all. GET OVER IT.

  • Posted By: revolution @ 11/13/2007 10:08:01 AM

    May JESUS have mercy on those who bicker and fight over such small things as the differences we have no control over,um like the color of our skin. geeeesh, is this 2007???? sometimes i can't tell, or is it even supposed to be different? What else have we known though, i was born in 1979. WOW.

    • Posted By: Achmed Naroobi @ 11/13/2007 10:27:50 AM

      Are you referring to the Hispanic Jesus???????

  • Posted By: mike_jay23 @ 11/12/2007 9:38:10 PM

    Please forgive my position on the topic, but do consider the area and the place you chose to use the langauge, please allow the group of Black people to not be judge by the select few or many, I have lots of white friends and it would hurt me deeply if I thought that they were referring to me in that matter behind my back, be a man or women and confront your fears and speak with that person on that level to ensure your assumptions are correct. E-5/6 SSGT Lowe USAF Veteran, Boise Idaho African American B.A in Aeronautical Science with Minor In Management, presently pursuing Mechanical Engineering Degree from Bosie State, any Questions or concerns e-mail me at Michaelalowe23@msn.com P.S please forgive my first post it was peer pressure and the spelling errors a little to hyper. Please do not refer to me as a "ignorant N@##@#" for my post.

  • Posted By: mike_jay23 @ 11/12/2007 9:15:24 PM

    Let's just see how many of these courageous people have the mind set to understand thu, shall not judge...christian KKK, Jewish Israel, Blacks american, all these groups have problem individuals and out of these two groups only one is held to a standard that shapes the entire race "Blacks", there are 180 different hate groups in this country and most of you have just submitted your application to jin one of them by making these ridiculous post comments...I have served this country for eight years and I have to say this is the worst place on the planet America, hate consumes majority of the communities and people to some degree that its painful to know that my time spent is really for nothing because you all still don't get it. You all should be ashamed for the continued argument about a subject that really doesn't matter. What do you tell your kids that all blacks are lazy or blacks are n$$$##@, what then they grow and see that yes there are a slect few that refuse to conform and learn the meaning _ignorant person_ and choose to educate themselves and see the effects that this word has on the identity of the black community. Is there a parent out here that has a child that wears there pants down to their knees, then you should blame the penal system not the black community, that was the way prisoners identified other prisoners as property to someone else, not the black community, whites do it to. If you could not tell I'm Black 32 with 3 children, I live in Idaho the old home of the KKK, and for me it was hard but what do you do, People are ignorant so in some way or another we all are N@##@#!, ignorant people because we fell to learn the person(s) we judge. We choose to judge by the group they represent. People hate Tiger Woods and for what reason I don't know he is one of the most positive Black stars out there, but they still refer to him as the N#$$#$@, on the Tour, See it does'nt matter and for that reason you people need to stop and realize I'm not judging you I simply stating the facts grow up.

  • Posted By: mike_jay23 @ 11/12/2007 9:15:09 PM

    Let's just see how many of these courageous people have the mind set to understand thu, shall not judge...christian KKK, Jewish Israel, Blacks american, all these groups have problem individuals and out of these two groups only one is held to a standard that shapes the entire race "Blacks", there are 180 different hate groups in this country and most of you have just submitted your application to jin one of them by making these ridiculous post comments...I have served this country for eight years and I have to say this is the worst place on the planet America, hate consumes majority of the communities and people to some degree that its painful to know that my time spent is really for nothing because you all still don't get it. You all should be ashamed for the continued argument about a subject that really doesn't matter. What do you tell your kids that all blacks are lazy or blacks are n$$$##@, what then they grow and see that yes there are a slect few that refuse to conform and learn the meaning _ignorant person_ and choose to educate themselves and see the effects that this word has on the identity of the black community. Is there a parent out here that has a child that wears there pants down to their knees, then you should blame the penal system not the black community, that was the way prisoners identified other prisoners as property to someone else, not the black community, whites do it to. If you could not tell I'm Black 32 with 3 children, I live in Idaho the old home of the KKK, and for me it was hard but what do you do, People are ignorant so in some way or another we all are N@##@#!, ignorant people because we fell to learn the person(s) we judge. We choose to judge by the group they represent. People hate Tiger Woods and for what reason I don't know he is one of the most positive Black stars out there, but they still refer to him as the N#$$#$@, on the Tour, See it does'nt matter and for that reason you people need to stop and realize I'm not judging you I simply stating the facts grow up.

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