Posted By: sctxmom @ 06/02/2008 8:13:19 AM
Comment: Wow, I am completely floored by some of the horrendous and unfeeling comments here. I have an overweight 6 year old daughter - not horribly obese, just overweight - and I am working to help her maintain her weight as she grows taller. It hasn't escaped my attention, and I'm not in some denial about it. She's still very young, and you don't just put a 6 year old on a "diet" and call it quits. But please, people, this is NOT some clear-cut issue of bad parenting! My husband & I are well-educated, healthy adults. I have been a vegetarian for over 16 years. My children don't even know what the term "fast food" means. I am at the gym 3-4 times a week and work with a personal trainer (and have done so for years). I have 2 other children of normal body weight. I am of a normal body weight. I compete (and win medals in!) numerous local 5Ks and am currently training for a half-marathon. And guess what? My "overweight" 6 year old daughter recently ran a 5K with me - and won a medal for her age group! Some kids simply grow at different rates. And some people think that just because their kids start off thin they will remain thin, but that is ridiculous. I can't tell you how many obese parents I see who have thin kids that eat stuff I would NEVER feed my kids. Those kids won't stay thin forever. Stop focusing on just the "overweight" kids. EVERY child needs to learn about how & when & what to eat. Believe me, I'm more confident that my daughter will end up healthy and athletic than I am the numerous skinny kids that I see running in & out of McD's all the time. You negative critics need to take a look at the other aspects of parenting that are detrimental to your children - such as teaching them about passing judgment without understanding circumstances. Personally, I'd prefer my daughter be a little round but empathetic and compassionate, rather than negative and single-minded.


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