Posted By: goldeniangel @ 05/29/2008 4:15:18 PM
Comment: As someone who has problems with seeing her body as it really is, I know that it's not just a matter of re-training the brain... that can help yes, but I do worry that there are people out there worse off than me in this way, that are being ignored or told they can fix it on their own. There's really only a certain amount you can do on your own. I've lost 15 lbs in the past year - I gained because I couldn't see the changes to my body originally, and then became obsessed with weight loss after a (now ex) boyfriend told me I was fat. I couldn't see the gain, and I can't see the loss... only before when I looked in the mirror I always saw myself as skinny, after the ex told me I was fat I finally saw myself as I really was - not fat, but definitely overweight. That lasted until I started losing and now it changes from day to day whether I look in the mirror and see fat, normal, or skinny. But I know that what I'm looking at isn't real... how my clothes fits IS. It's in my head, I can look at other things than the mirror to know what's really going on, but that doesnt' mean that I've actually gotten better.


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