I think you mised one...working with too many family members...nepotism at its best...
I think you mised one...working with too many family members...nepotism at its best...
I just left a job with a boss that insulted people. I can't tell you how much better I felt after I left. It was as if the world was lifted off of my shoulders.
If I starve , Live in a cardboard box, go naked I will NEVER work in a Office again! It was a Terrible Experience and I was Bullied , Talked down to , Treated Poorly, Overloaded with work no one else wanted to do, Threatened .... Humilated , Everyone in the office all went out together, played together, A Total Cohension !! I was told You dont Fit in !! Basically they all had thier heads in each others navel... You know what I mean ! I wouldnt recommend it to anyone !!
I found # 5 to be very interesting...besides quitting; what does one do in that situation?
I worked for a boss at a mortgage company who was verbally abusive to everyone except for her team or her favorite flavor of the month. She was a terrible terrible person. She was manipulative, a liar, an instigator, a drama queen, a bully, and a forger to top it off. She hated anyone who was happily married in the office and tried to ruin their marriage in any way she could because of her failed and miserable marriage and life. She was just a horrible person. This took up 70% of our business day and the other 30% was work, which she was really good at. It's too bad that we could not be productive 70% of the day instead. Her payback was that her office was shut down and everyone left her. She couldn't and stil doesn't get it.
I would suggest you have a wellness day. In appreciation to the employees, It would really help on Job perfomance and help with stress. You could have a Massage Therapist come in like once a month or maybe even twice a month and Give corporate Chair massage. The Benefits of a Chair Massage really helps out alot. Not to mention the emplyeee feels like they are being appreciated and wants to do their job with out griping about it. talk to Human resources. Or the maager . to see if thi will work....Good Luck
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What is the best solution for reason #5, bad vibes? Would quitting be the only solution for every job you go to. I'm in a very bad position and am willing to move on, but what if this happens again? What would make a boss move towards intimidation and bullying?
Not to mention Carpel Tunel. I have had 2 surgeries and if you wern't bullied before in the work place wait until you file a workers comp claim and see how you are treated. It doesn't matter if you were an inocent victim or not. They don't care.
Not to mention Carpel Tunel!!! I have had 2 Surgeries and believe me if you weren't bullied before wait until you file a workers comp claim for Carpel, you can expect to never be welcomed back at your job again.
Beware, of the being on the computer and having the phone between you shoulder and your ear! After, years of this bad posture it finally came to a head and I have suffered horrible back of the head headaches, mucscle spasms, and an overall locked-up and fixed neck issues. Get a head set- use it.... when off of work , watch your posture at home and when using your cell phone- multi-tasking can take it's toll!
You are 100% correct!! Need a headset? Shoot me an e-mail at mconrad@hellodirect.com and I will put you in touch with one of our corporate representatives who can offer some great specials for the month of December!
Thank God I have a career out in the field. All the heavy physical labor and scientific data collection are a relief compared to the monotonous, political daily crap of an office job.
I'd rather deal with rotator cuff damage than sitting in a 'badly designed chair' all day (horror of horrors) and getting fat from being sedentary all day.
Yah if you're fat from sitting in an office and noshing on snacks ALL day long... it's not hard to see the solution: Get Your Fat @$$ to the gym! Stop eating so much! Consume less fat! Remember those photos of when you were in high school/college and you looked so thin and happy? You consumed too much beer and ate too many 2a.m. pizzas. Time to increase the metabolism and so something about it-instead of blaming your job.
I agree in that it seems to be a common occurance. I work in IT and I've been at jobs where co-workers goofed off 70% of the time. It was like trying to work with jr. high school kids. Working was an afterthought most times. Major mistakes were made, jobs not getting done all because of the playing around. A worker was often eating potato chips while talking to customers on the phone. Sexual jokes and comments about women co-workers were the norm. Supervisors would rarely do anything about this type of behavior. And if you said anything to a co-worker about it, they would get so upset. I've seen it over and over. You're always told to just ignore it or deal with it.
One thing you didn't mention was neck strain from being on the phone all day. A great way to avoid this is by using a corded or wireless headset. Check out www.hellodirect.com or send me an e-mail at mconrad@hellodirect.com
I have a 7th problem. I feel lonely sitting in the office late hours and that leads to fear of being alone. A light music from ipod does help a bit.
You forgot pain in the neck by using a handset. People should look into corded or wireless headsets. Check out www.hellodirect.com For more information send me an e-mail at mconrad@hellodirect.com
Keep a can of lysol or bottle of disinfectant spray and papertowels handy to clean your work area 2 - 3 times a week. What ever happened to fresh air? The windowless buildings must be contributing to our ill health, too. Granted, the air is filtered, but how safe are the fiters? And how often are those filters being replaced?
unfortunately the case for me is my superiors/upper management in my workplace have numerous complaints with no avail. Ive been subjected to discrimination, intimidation, harassment, etc,etc. I have had to beg for benefits that are owed to me, I've even passed out/collapsed at work due to increased stress factors and retaliation for making the complaint to begin with!! It's amazing what some people are subjected to behind closed doors. I think It's lawsuit time!!
Yeah, are there any ideas on how to solve the boredom issue? I sit at work all day long and do nothing for 8 hours. It is very sickning and I haven't done anything this month yet. The only thing I do to keep at least half way sane is to browse the internet. Any ideas/solutions would be very helpful. I am also looking for a new job but will probably land back in the same boat again. Thanks.
I've been fortunate to be able to telecommute over the last four years, and it has made a huge difference regarding my overall stress level. Also find I rarely get sick. Always believed that ludicrously cramped work spaces, heightened noise levels, relentless fluorescent lighting, office tensions/bad vibes, and people coming to work ill made it tough to stay healthy on the job. Not having a rush-hour commute twice a day hasn't hurt either!
Wow, this is the reason y i have been looking for a telecommuting job for about 6 months now. I have sever back pain , i have resorted to wearign glasses because of vision and last but not least my boss reaks.. ughhhhh. Please if you can share where or for who u work for i will do the rest. u can reach me at densier327@yahoo.com thanks..
hello i reasd ur comment and thats the reason y i have been looking for a telecommuting job, becasue of these annoyances, may i ask where or what company is it that u work for? thanks u can reach me at deniser327@yahoo.com
To CJS123: Would you mind sharing how you converted to a telecommuting position? What kind of work do you do? I am certain that I would be far healthier, physically and emotionally, if I could do my work via telecommuting. Please reply to deebee44@yahoo.com Thanks!
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