Mommy Wants Her Body Back

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  • Posted By: pamatintheknow @ 12/17/2007 9:20:04 PM

    I had breast cancer when I was 25 yrs old... I also had silicone reconstruction. The BIGGEST mistake of my life. Anyone considereing breast implants really needs to do thier OWN homework. DO NOT take what your surgeons are telling you as gospel. Gina mentions the mammogram interference, that is just the tip of the iceberg. Implants do NOT last a lifetime and will need to be replaced every 10-15 years. Your insurance will not cover all the medical expenses associcated with the surgeries. Very few studies on the effecacy of implants have included breast cancer patients. Capsular contracture is a major concern and will require additional corrective surgeries. Ladies , there is NO guarantee that these products are full proof. It is your body and you DO have the right to make your own choice...BUT... make certain that you have ALL the facts so that you can make an INFORMED choice.

  • Posted By: pamatintheknow @ 12/17/2007 9:19:00 PM

    I had breast cancer when I was 25 yrs old... I also had silicone reconstruction. The BIGGEST mistake of my life. Anyone considereing breast implants really needs to do thier OWN homework. DO NOT take what your surgeons are telling you as gospel. Gina mentions the mammogram interference, that is just the tip of the iceberg. Implants do NOT last a lifetime and will need to be replaced every 10-15 years. Your insurance will not cover all the medical expenses associcated with the surgeries. Very few studies on the effecacy of implants have included breast cancer patients. Capsular contracture is a major concern and will require additional corrective surgeries. Ladies , there is NO guarantee that these products are full proof. It is your body and you DO have the right to make your own choice...BUT... make certain that you have ALL the facts so that you can make an INFORMED choice.

  • Posted By: cutenessqueen @ 12/17/2007 9:18:00 PM

    To each her own. If a woman has the ability to (mentally and physically) to do this, peace be with her. There are any number of personal reasons to do this but it is her decision to do it and she shouldn't be judged for doing something that she feels good about. Who are we to judge when there are so many things we should be looking into our own own mirrors and fixing?

  • Posted By: LANIA_DEL86 @ 12/17/2007 8:55:36 PM

    im sorry but i am not gonna sacrifice my boobs because they are tooo big im a 38h and i love them and if i got rid of them it would make me look funny so i will keep them till they sagg to the floor

    • Posted By: jacy-e @ 12/17/2007 9:17:55 PM

      i like your self confidents :)

  • Posted By: phiomalibumalibu @ 12/17/2007 9:06:26 PM

    Yes that is correct, baby boomers started after the end of world war II (1945) till about 1955. That is age group that is between 52 and 62 years old right now. The article mentions 40 plus and I think the age group that generally does the implants is from 30 to 55 or so. Times have changed and people want to look younger longer. There are some women who do get them earlier, buy my wife waited until she had her two kids and was 35 I believe. We are very happy with her implants -- and recommend going to www.finestimplants.com to find the right implants for yourself. They will help you find what you are looking for as well as an excellent doctor. Can't say enough good things about how this has changed things for us.

    • Posted By: jaynemagee @ 12/17/2007 9:17:53 PM

      I think maybe he's plugging his website!

  • Posted By: blam @ 12/17/2007 9:16:00 PM

    The goddesses of feminism are rolling over in their graves. After a century of fighting to make men obsolete, women today need men more than ever before. Big boobs is what men want, so women are giving in to men by going under the knife. You have come a long way, baby, and yet you still can't go anywhere without men. Way to stand by your man, Hillary, and let Bill walk all over you.. You were an inspiration to all young girls.

  • Posted By: newsweek99 @ 12/17/2007 9:14:33 PM

    From some of the responses posted here, it seems to be generally populated with chauvinist males.
    Just to set the mood here, I am a male and I like women. Not to say that I go around and ogle their bodies or look for new adventures, because I already have a loving wife.
    Some of you seem to believe that a woman is just an object that is void of self- image or esteem.
    The women that are getting breast argumentation are not exclusively doing so to please some man or attract attention to them selves. The principal reason is to regain some of the wonder of youth that age has taken from her.
    This remark is directed to those male skeptics that have posted negative remarks regarding something that you evidently know nothing about.
    Mentally suppose yourself in a position where your chauvinist balls should just shrivel up and disappear and old faithful should develop into something less dependable. If there were some medical procedure that could restore that 20-year-old resilience, you would be on the first flight and first in line to get it. Fortunately, there is Viagra, but that is just a crutch to substitute for what is lost.
    Take that to another level, let???s suppose that your nose should collapse and close the opening then turn a paler shade of gray. You could still function, but your face would be grotesque. Now, wouldn???t you seek out a doctor that could fix it?
    Walk a mile in her shoes before you start berating and thrashing how someone is living.
    Be careful what you wish for ~ Et cetera ~ Et cetera
    JRT

  • Posted By: denzilker @ 12/17/2007 5:09:37 PM

    I find this trend to be very scarey. These "older" women are more at risk for breast cancer, osteoperosis, and back problems. I say buy a "miricle bra". It is cheaper, and safer.

    • Posted By: Ballerina @ 12/17/2007 9:11:37 PM

      Please expound upon this Miracle Bra that takes women from an A to a D. The solution is more than a bra. The trick is to turn the mindset around.

    • Posted By: djross @ 12/17/2007 5:29:07 PM

      I had very large breasts that hurt every month and every time I exercised. I had a lift and reduction at 47.

  • Posted By: Sunshine69 @ 12/17/2007 9:11:05 PM

    I agree with these women, I am 38 years old and have 4 children. I underwent baratric surgery 5 years ago and my breast where the first thing that went. I often feel like one of the boys. Its is also very embarassing when my 14 year old daughter has bigger breast then I do. Is there a miracle pill out there?

  • Posted By: eliza @ 12/17/2007 6:02:43 PM

    i think someone who has these kind of ideas,doesnt have any selfcomfident..

    • Posted By: Ballerina @ 12/17/2007 9:08:07 PM

      It's hard to have self confidence when everyone around you is telling you your breasts are too small! The defining female part of your anatomy is inadequate. You suck as a woman, nobody would truly want you, guys will always be "looking" at someone else. Blah blah blah. It's easy to fall for it all, roll over, give up, and get the boobs. The point is women have to fight this crap and be strong. But it's hard.

  • Posted By: MNov @ 12/17/2007 9:05:26 PM

    I want them. I'm almost 50 and have lived with diminished boobs since two children (breastfed) and one lumpectomy in between. I am happy with my body considering my age and I want them and I will see what I can do to get them for my 50th birthday. No man in my life, they are just for me! How I look and how I feel about myself with regard to how I look etc. I mean there comes a point where fitness does not prevent sag.

  • Posted By: cutenessqueen @ 12/17/2007 9:04:20 PM

    To each her own. If it makes you feel comfortable, you are healthy enough, and understand the risks, so be it. There is enough pressure placed on women. If your selfesteem is boosted, who cares? It's an individual desicion and one in which others shouldn't cast stones.

  • Posted By: davida @ 12/17/2007 9:02:45 PM

    As a mother of 3 young children, having had sagging breasts and stretch marks, the "Mommy Make-Over" was and is definitely worth it. To those opposed, I respect your opinion. To those who have had it done, congratulations for doing something for yourself. To those considering it, go for it!

  • Posted By: fifty years young @ 12/17/2007 9:00:45 PM

    Ok...so the women are getting the boob jobs to boost their egos because of low self esteem or lack of bedroom talent to keep their men interested. I heard the husband of a former Playboy (or was it Hustler) centerfold had a huge poster of her hanging over the bed...is he making love to the illusion image on the wall or to the actual female who posed for it in reality? I want to hear what the men are getting to boost thier egos besides hair implants. Goose and gander time here!

  • Posted By: alltaken @ 12/17/2007 7:28:14 PM

    Dear wikiman, You say, very indignately I might add, don't judge other people's choices, and then you go off being the biggest judgemental one of the bunch! You judge the guy who gets a divorce? I suspect that you are talking from experience. And quite frankly if you sound half as much of a female dog in real life as you do in your post, your husband didn't get out any time soon enough.

    • Posted By: mcdebby @ 12/17/2007 8:59:08 PM

      LOL......that's the pot calling the kettle black.

    • Posted By: wikiman @ 12/17/2007 7:41:00 PM

      Sorry alltaken, I am a man who has been happly married for over 35 years. I wasn't judging anyone. All I said was that society doesn't judge Viagra, hair implants or a red car. You are the only one that can allow someone to judge you, rather your an immature slob or a saint. Take a chill pill and try not to read your life into other peoples comments.

  • Posted By: OneUp @ 12/17/2007 7:38:47 PM

    I'm 42 and have been mulling around getting a boob job for 8 years. So this is nothing new. I know I'm not the only mother ready to get her cleavage back. I This is what I tell people who are anti breast augmentation. I say, If every time a man got a woman pregnant and his *** shrunk an inch every time..I know for a fact we'd have all kinds of pills and operations to enlarge ***'s. There also wouldn't be that man accidental pregnancies.

    • Posted By: alltaken @ 12/17/2007 7:42:32 PM

      SO the man gut all those sluts who unzip their pants pregant? All those sluts are saints. People are pitiful. NO responsibility for their own actions. It acts two, you know. No, of course you don't know, you are too busy being hateful and playing the blame game. pitiful.

      • Posted By: mcdebby @ 12/17/2007 8:58:00 PM

        "Alltaken".........I've noticed that you comment to most people's posts. And, usually, you're very negative. Sounds like you have issues of your own. Instead of being such a hater, why don't you grow up?

      • Posted By: bgmach @ 12/17/2007 7:52:26 PM

        alltaken: Try communicating in some form of English next time, your comments may be easier to read.

  • Posted By: mcdebby @ 12/17/2007 7:14:34 PM

    I feel that it is not so much the fault of the women, but of society as a whole. If our society honored women as they grow older, wrinkles and all, I doubt there would be so many hangups. Just look at what we do to celebrities who are not a size 0. Kate Winslet (size 8), Britney Spears and her belly bulge after having two kids back to back (okay, so she has a host of other issues), and most recently the flack about Jennifer Love Hewitt's size 8 rear. Is it really that bad to be a size 8? According to popular magazines, yes. It's a hard thing to live up to for both celebrities and the rest of us.

    • Posted By: alltaken @ 12/17/2007 7:31:27 PM

      Oh, sure always someone elses fautl. Sure, dirtly stinking men force women to wear high heels. You don't suppose that it has anything to do with insecure women desiring to be noticed would have anything to do with it?

      • Posted By: mcdebby @ 12/17/2007 8:55:10 PM

        I don't think, for many women, it has anything to do with insecurity. Most of the women I know that have had plastic surgery are very confident women. Just like a 'dirty stinking man [sic]' to assume it's insecurity. If you don't think society doesn't portray an unhealthy view of what the perfect woman looks like, you've got blinders on.

    • Posted By: mufipoo @ 12/17/2007 7:22:05 PM

      AMEN!!!!!!!!

  • Posted By: chuck0410 @ 12/17/2007 6:52:50 PM

    What in the Wide World of Sports is wrong with all of you women wanting to increase your breast size. You have been lied too and duped. My wife has had 2 heart surgeries and Breast Cancer. I love her just the way she is. I call her scars Battle Scars. I love her and am attracted to her because my love for her is based upon more than just physical. I am committed to her and thank God for bringing her into my life. If you ladies are married or looking to get married , etc and think your Man will love you more if you have big breasts (and there are men that think this way) these men love you and are attracted to you for all of the wrong reasons - they do not love you for who you are, but only how you look - and you degrade yourself to subimit to such ignorance.

    • Posted By: right-on @ 12/17/2007 7:07:55 PM

      my husband loved my body the way it was,i wanted it for myself

      • Posted By: goobydoo @ 12/17/2007 7:35:18 PM

        That's sad that you think so little of yourself.

        • Posted By: right-on @ 12/17/2007 8:01:26 PM

          goobydoo needs to gey a life!!

          • Posted By: goobydoo @ 12/17/2007 8:08:35 PM

            I have a life, not a sad one like you. I love what I was born with and don't feel the need to make changes to make myself "happier"

            • Posted By: right-on @ 12/17/2007 8:17:20 PM

              good for you,quit cracking on everyone else

              • Posted By: goobydoo @ 12/17/2007 8:24:53 PM

                Why don't you get a "life" like you have told me a hundred times. Do you have anything else to say?

                • Posted By: right-on @ 12/17/2007 8:39:04 PM

                  whatever,just mind your own

                  • Posted By: goobydoo @ 12/17/2007 8:53:12 PM

                    You should listen to your own advice. You are the one attacking me for having an opinion. If you have something to actually say, that would be fine, but all you can do is jump me.

                • Posted By: goobydoo @ 12/17/2007 8:43:01 PM

                  Must have listened. Thank goodness!

  • Posted By: kimmar @ 12/17/2007 8:35:53 PM

    My breasts have always been huge. I got tired of them hitting my knees when I walk to the refridgerator so I took out a small steak knife, sliced a 3" incision in the top right corner of both of my breasts. I then proceeded to insert the tube of my husbands wet/dry vac very slowly and turned it on. I then took a wire hanger and stuck it in with the dry vac and twisted and turned it to help dislodge some of the fat to be sucked out. I did this to both of my breasts for about 30 minutes a breast. When they reached the size I liked I simply used my husbands utility knife to manually cut away the excess skin and used his blow torch to corterize the cuts. Although this was very painful and I passed out 1-15 times doing it my breasts now are smaller. They look like cottage cheese and melted cheese but they no longer hit my knees!!! Ohh, my husband loves them too, which is why he saves them for future use!!!

    • Posted By: jaynemagee @ 12/17/2007 8:52:45 PM

      I don't get it ....

    • Posted By: twoatatime @ 12/17/2007 8:39:42 PM

      Man...and I thought I was sick.

  • Posted By: creative consultant @ 12/17/2007 7:49:30 PM

    it sounds like goobydoo has nothing better to do than to *** about other people and what they are doing

    • Posted By: Ballerina @ 12/17/2007 8:52:12 PM

      Maybe goobydoo knows a little more about this topic than you do and is interested in helping others by steering them away from a bad path.

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