Mommy Wants Her Body Back

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  Posted By: nativerose @ 04/23/2008 12:20:53 PM

  the title reads more older women are getting breast surgery, I'm not old but have taken the idea of getting breast implants into consideration for when i'm older (yes maybe I am vain). I've never done any research or put much thought into it since I didn't think it would be necessary yet. After reading all the risks on plastic surgery and all the women that have had problems with them I'm not even going to consider having breast implants anymore. So thank you.

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  Posted By: haelftw @ 04/23/2008 12:03:14 PM

  I see so many of you thinkng that berast surgery is pure vanity and foolish to boot. But as a 40 something year old divorced mother who suffered from severe breast asymmetry (>1 cup size) after pregnancy and weight loss, I can tell you that psychological well-being is as important as physical well-being. I won't say that my divorce was caused by my differently sozed breasts, but i will tell you that my ex was completely disgusted by them. So you tell yourself that there are better people out there that will accept you exactly as you are. It is very, very difficult to maintain a healthy self-esteem when rejection follows immediately after you (finally) become physically intimate with someone. And I never kept my 'difference' a secret. It was talked about long before anyone ever saw me shirtless. So after careful selction I now have two evenly sozed breasts, both the same size as my larger pre-surgery breast. I also have a caring, supportive, long-term partner who is aware of my surgery and what prompted it and he is able to admit that had he met me pre-surgery, he might not have stayed.
  So before you automatically call all of us 'vain', ill-informed or selfish I think you should examine what you would do if you were in my shoes.

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  Posted By: haelftw @ 04/23/2008 12:03:05 PM

  I see so many of you thinkng that berast surgery is pure vanity and foolish to boot. But as a 40 something year old divorced mother who suffered from severe breast asymmetry (>1 cup size) after pregnancy and weight loss, I can tell you that psychological well-being is as important as physical well-being. I won't say that my divorce was caused by my differently sozed breasts, but i will tell you that my ex was completely disgusted by them. So you tell yourself that there are better people out there that will accept you exactly as you are. It is very, very difficult to maintain a healthy self-esteem when rejection follows immediately after you (finally) become physically intimate with someone. And I never kept my 'difference' a secret. It was talked about long before anyone ever saw me shirtless. So after careful selction I now have two evenly sozed breasts, both the same size as my larger pre-surgery breast. I also have a caring, supportive, long-term partner who is aware of my surgery and what prompted it and he is able to admit that had he met me pre-surgery, he might not have stayed.
  So before you automatically call all of us 'vain', ill-informed or selfish I think you should examine what you would do if you were in my shoes.