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Green: In spite of what I don't have, I don't feel poor.
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A Life Full Of Riches

This material world constantly reminds me of what I don't have. But somehow I still feel wealthy.

 

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It was early December 2003, my first season as a Salvation Army bell ringer, when I was confronted with the question. I was standing just outside the doorway of a Wal-Mart, offering a "thank you" and a smile to each person who dropped a donation into my red kettle. A neatly dressed woman and her young son walked up to the kettle stand. While she searched her purse for some cash, the boy looked up at me. I can still see the confusion and curiosity in his eyes as he asked, "Are you poor?"

"Well," I stammered, trying to think, "I have more than some people, but not as much as others." His mother scolded him for the social no-no, and they hurried off to do their shopping. His question, however, did not leave me.

I've never thought of myself as "poor," but I can't deny certain facts. Every time I fill out my 1040 form, I fall into one of the lowest income brackets. In the past 35 years, I've taken just one vacation trip. My TV is a black-and-white set that someone gave me eight years ago.

Yet I feel nothing more than a passing whim to attain the material things so many other people have. My 1999 car shows the wear and tear of 105,000 miles. But it is still dependable. My apartment is modest, but quiet and relaxing. My clothes are well suited to my work, which is primarily outdoors. My minimal computer needs can be met at the library.

In spite of what I don't have, I don't feel poor. Why? I've enjoyed exceptionally good health for 53 years. It's not just that I've been illness-free, it's that I feel vigorous and spirited. Exercising is actually fun for me. I look forward to long, energizing walks. And I love the "can do" attitude that follows.

I also cherish the gift of creativity. When I write a beautiful line of poetry, or fabricate a joke that tickles someone, I feel rich inside. I'm continually surprised at the insights that come through my writing process. And talking with so many interesting writer friends is one of my main sources of enjoyment.

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  • Posted By: Poor? @ 03/17/2008 10:38:33 PM

    Thanks for sharing your points, eronel . One of my primary weaknesses is that I'm idealistic to the point of ignoring the practical, which you point out here. Of course, these are necessities which balance the points I made in the essay. If I had been in her place and wanted children, I would have gone the same direction she did. Nothing personal against the other party.
    Maybe it will help your curiosity to know that this particular lady wasn't physically able to have children.
    Nor was I emotionally able to be a good parent, or financially either. KRG

  • Posted By: Poor? @ 03/17/2008 10:26:03 PM

    Thanks for your very generous comments Don. It really means a lot when nter Your Comment



    Thanks for your very generous comments, Don. It really means a lot that you can identify with my point of view. Many days are uphill and against the stream. Thankfully, the Christmas season generally brings out the best in people, including me. KRG


  • Posted By: Poor? @ 03/17/2008 10:17:45 PM

    Hi Mrs A, Thanks for your comment and encouragement. It amazes me that people are still reading this essay. :) KRG

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