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  • Posted By: saudiy @ 12/20/2007 8:52:19 AM

    Hello have been (that was suppuse to be hello kathleen)but I still like -spech recognition system ,and i still
    feel ok towards mr bell gates
    actually kathleen,all human need to know the differentce,whom should be free,,, is it our lives or our desires
    because apearently one of thems the other in the long run being with our desirs harm the body and the comunity and also not listening to our desires makes our lives not comfortable
    so i think injoying our needs is the key
    it is also of amusing that I am from Saudi Arabia and you are from United States and we share the same fears .
    that is humenity !
    in spite of all politics
    think you ( that was suppose to e thank you)

    • Posted By: saudiy @ 12/21/2007 8:27:59 PM

      corrections
      sixth line thems should be them harms
      last line to e thank should be to be thamk

  • Posted By: mzcosmo773 @ 12/21/2007 7:10:22 PM

    I have one comment, what do you do when your child has someone at their school pregnant? Do you make a big deal out of it, gossip with other parents, ignore the problem, or do you make such a big deal about it as you about JLS; and do you talk to school officials about this. I just think its time to open your eyes to all parents, we have to talk to our children, you have to be the role model, not a fictional character one TV, this is 2007 not 1957.

  • Posted By: tangolas @ 12/21/2007 6:49:20 PM

    I remember thinking, and that's going to be my life: cold, hard and small.......
    Guess what kathleen, your life is just that, cold hard and very, very small.

  • Posted By: blairbaci @ 12/21/2007 11:52:02 AM

    I had a child in my 20's -- the first in my peer group to do so. At the time I was told it would ruin my life and I would never have a career. My son is almost 27 years old and raising him has been one of lie's greatest joys. One of the central issues for women having children is affording them. Jamie Lynn presumably has the funds, having worked for years. Biologically we are programmed to have children young. Would it be more acceptable to wait until her forties, pump herself full of hormones and risk illness? Why not wish her and her child well? Or better yet revisit them in twenty years to see how it all worked out. There is no one way to do things and I dare say condeming her is an indication of how sick this culture is. The discussion is not one of her age, but simply, are you ready to take the responsibility? Jamie Lynn took the responsibility of having a lead in a television series which requires a lot more time and energy than most people understand. I say wish her well and teach your own children to take responsibility not to condem others for their decisions.

  • Posted By: NewsWEAKISUNAmerican @ 12/19/2007 8:22:23 PM

    It's clear why Jamie Lynn Spears got knocked up:

    She embraced the liberal ideology of having PREMARITAL sex. Now if she was a good, clean, conservative gal, she would've waited until marriage to have sex, which would've meant she would've been emotionally responsible enough to have a child inside of a loving marriage. Having a child at 16 out of wedlock is going to be emotionally destructive to the bast*rd child and crippling to the teenage mother's mental and emotional development. Having "safe" sex is no 100% guarantee against unwanted, teen pregnancies because condoms may rip, so the only, true way is abstinence. Additionally, having premarital sex encourages soulless sex for lust instead of fostering lifelong commitments that are healthier for any society.

    • Posted By: sheilab @ 12/21/2007 10:50:01 AM

      This is why soo many people can't stand conservatives. If they get knocked up it's the liberals fault. As far as good loving marriages. Please unmarried "conservatives" who get knocked up are forced to marry or their parents rethink the whole abortion thing. This isn't about conservative or liberal. This is about a young girl who made a mistake and a idiotic journalist too afraid to talk to her kid about sex!

    • Posted By: sammykd @ 12/20/2007 1:28:32 PM

      Um, no. She met the boyfriend in a "christian conservative" church in the Bible belt. How'd that work out for her?

      As a Catholic in the Northeast with an MBA, a good job, and someone who despises the rampant stupidity and hypocrisy of so-called "christian conversatives," (yes, I know, God talks to Bush and Cheney and the rest of the GOP), people like you would label me a "liberal," where I actually live out the values that conservatives claim to own. I worked my way the through night school to get my degree, pull all-nighters if required for work, have a 2.5 year old and another on the way, and waited until we could afford kids before we actually had them.

      Put that in your pipe and smoke it.

  • Posted By: kymmy@cox.net @ 12/20/2007 7:42:43 PM

    Lets be honest -- you can talk til your blue in the face to your kids and be the best possible role model there is but can any parent compete with the media? Please!!! Any parent out there who thinks that they can keep their kids out of trouble just by "keeping the lines of communication open" are sticking their heads in the sand. Kids always think their parents are the dumbest people on the planet. If their idols are of questionable moral character, that gives kids license to commit similiar acts and avoid taking responsibility for them as their idols can get away with it and still be "cool".

    • Posted By: sheilab @ 12/21/2007 10:28:12 AM

      Not all kids think their parents are the dumbest in the world. It's the hypocrisy. Kids are very attuned to what's going on in their household and the quickest way to turned a kid off is to not practice what you preach. Communication is key, but there should also be no fear. A kid who is afraid of their parent will not under any circumstances discuss anything with that parent. As far as role models go. Not all kids follow them blindly they have other things in their life to offset that and the child who doesn't well the parent needs to help their children develop other interests instead of sitting in front of the tv.

  • Posted By: sheilab @ 12/21/2007 10:17:11 AM

    How many more articles about freaked out writers who are afraid to talk to their kids about sex will we have to read or be subjected to? It seems to me these writers should have thought about having "the talk" before they had children. Tell me who's more irresponsible Jaime Lynn or grown women scared of the sex talk?

  • Posted By: happyheart @ 12/21/2007 2:31:05 AM

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  • Posted By: eubankk @ 12/20/2007 9:47:39 PM

    My wife got pregnant with our first child when we were 15 years old and we have managed to raise our daughter to be a wonderful young woman. She is now 23 years old and married to a great guy; they have no children as of yet but may someday. We also have two fantastic sons and neither of them got their girlfriends pregnant either so the whole teen pregnancy thing is not self perpetuating in any way.
    Did we make a mistake? Yes. Did we regret it? At the time yes we did. But my wife is now about to graduate with her MBA after several years of hard work and I am currently in my third year of my B.S. in Legal Studies. Teen pregnancy is not the end of the world. Jamie-Lynn Spears is in a far better position to provide for her child than most young women her age but that does not make it right. What I find simply amazing is the incredibly judgemental people who are writing in to this board talking about what a terrible person this young lady is. She made a mistake and has taken responsibility for it. The world needs to leave her alone and let her live her life in the best way she can for her child and herself!

  • Posted By: Jack3213 @ 12/20/2007 8:52:47 AM

    Trailer trash with money is still trash. Sorry, Spears family, but it is true and you know it. The fact that a 16 year old is pregnany and everyone is talking about it is disgraceful. She does have a choice in this centuty. Because of her religious beliefs she feels she does not? What a shame.

    • Posted By: rougen @ 12/20/2007 8:18:01 PM

      Sensei has the right idea. You're a moron Jack. First, I haven't been to any of your "Guys Gone Girly Gossip Club" meetings so I haven't really heard ANYONE talking about it. Second, her religious beliefs have already been pretty much violated since SHE ALREADY HAD PRE-MARITAL SEX YOU MORON. Third, appologies usually go to the one offended and since the Speares family is too rich and they all have much better things to do than waste their time listening to everyone that has an ethical qualm with them. You, my friend, are gay.

    • Posted By: Sensei57 @ 12/20/2007 5:41:11 PM

      WOW...you're an amazing example of what is wrong with America...hahahahahaha
      NO further comment!

    • Posted By: djmimi @ 12/20/2007 3:40:48 PM

      could not agree with you more...

  • Posted By: icannotbelieveit @ 12/20/2007 2:33:36 PM

    I can't believe the author has the gall to be so open with the fact that she is not going to discuss the star of one of her daughters favorite show's unplanned pregnancy. At 7 years old she doesn't need to get into detail with the issues of intercourse and contraception, but her acknowledgement of her daughter finding out from somewhere else and preferring it that way seems to me what might have happened with the Spear's girls. I don't think any mother wants or even anticipates their daughter becoming pregnant in their teens. If you are waiting for a comfortable time to bring up issues you'll be dealing with them when they are forced upon you. Waiting for your children to bring up issues to you is gambling a lot for the sake of your own discomfort. Shame on you!

    • Posted By: Sensei57 @ 12/20/2007 5:39:23 PM

      FINALLY.....SOMEONE WHO SEES THE TRUTH!!! Well said (clapping)!! This issue is soooo much bigger than Hollywood or Jamie Lynn. This is about the PARENTS, and HOW can a parent WANT their child to find out from someone else about teen pregnancy involving the child's role model????!!! What kinda parenting are we doing?? This is Jamie Lynn and Britney's problem....their parents are obviously just like this author. WOW!! Kudos to you friend.

  • Posted By: DigitalComponents @ 12/20/2007 4:22:31 PM

    And, finally, excuse me?!? Cosmo Kramer, please. What are you people smoking over there at Newsweek? Are you high? Do you not see just how rife with sexual content *all* the tween content is on the Disney and Nickelodeon kids shows? All they talk about is sex, sex, sex. Where do you think America's female tween set is getting their fashion tips and ideas from in the first place? So to whine about having your 7 year old kid being exposed to what's in The New York Post is disingenuous, at best, and the fact that you could write this nonsense in a national magazine is more of indictment of your ongoing abdication of your parental responsibilities than anything else, so spare us the moralizing, elitist tone, and go foist it off on someone that will take it seriously, and while your at it, go have a look in the mirror before you project your failures off on your readers, and the media, of which you are a part, which puts all that fabulous Burberry and those Manolos to die for in your closet. Thanks! That'd be great, Corporate Wonder Writer Girl!

  • Posted By: jncc1701 @ 12/20/2007 1:36:00 PM

    I must be confused, what is so hard to say a TV star made a mistake? and now she will have to deal with the consequences one way or another. her life will change and she will be a bit pissed (one the hormones wear off) at the impact on her time and freedom. If she is stupid and marries the father - be ready for some real headlines.as it makes a very difficult situation much much worse.
    I can't understand why we are shamed into silence by sex and sexual behaviour. It should be clear by now that we cannot outsource this part of our parental responsibility. And blaming this on TV, culture and values are just excuses for lack of parental involvement.
    To the writer, this is profoundly simple to talk to your daughter about. Choices and consequences - and babies take time, money and a great deal of effort to raise - 16 year old girls are not up to the task, pregnancy at too young an age is a no win situation - terminating the pregnancy carries with it psychological responsibility just as having the baby will. and solving all of life dilemmas in 30 mins only happens on TV sitcoms.
    When I was a child (I am female) and a situation arose for my father to talk to me about someone being "knocked" up I was sat down and spoken to as to the problems with this and why I needed to be the master of my reproductive capacity. Thanks Dad.

  • Posted By: formerteenmom@CAL @ 12/20/2007 1:08:19 PM

    As an undergraduate student at the University of California Berkeley, and a teen mother at age 14, I can say that life is not over after a teenage pregnancy!!!! Rather than further stigmatizing teen parents, the media should rather focus their attention in creating awareness about the many young women, who successfully balancing their undergraduate studies and children. Let???s promote that there are support services in place at many universities, such as family housing, parent grants, and child-care facilities that can allow them to continue their dreams.

    I???m not saying that that I think teen pregnancies should be acceptable, but if we can???t fix the root causes attributing to the problem than I say lets stop criticizing and start encouraging these women toward success.

    I also think this issue goes beyond morals and has a lot to do with national policy failing to provide young adolescents and their families with good schools and sufficient means to ends poverty.

  • Posted By: theinsider7 @ 12/20/2007 12:43:48 PM

    When i read the first 5 lines i was shocked. I mean you would think that Jamie would learn from her sisters mistakes you know? when i was little i remember being a fan of Britney Spears and it was until she started hanging out with Paris Hilton and marring that freak shot that her life went down hill, but it's not just their fault it's also the media's fault (no offence), because these stars get hammered all the time. Their life is hard but as a "normal" citizan our lives are harder.

  • Posted By: theinsider7 @ 12/20/2007 12:43:32 PM

    When i read the first 5 lines i was shocked. I mean you would think that Jamie would learn from her sisters mistakes you know? when i was little i remember being a fan of Britney Spears and it was until she started hanging out with Paris Hilton and marring that freak shot that her life went down hill, but it's not just their fault it's also the media's fault (no offence), because these stars get hammered all the time. Their life is hard but as a "normal" citizan our lives are harder.

  • Posted By: Anna1441 @ 12/20/2007 8:45:06 AM

    Here we go again. As if hearing about Brittney on a daily basis is'nt nauseating enough! People, these are two different girls. Please do not compare one to the other because they are related. Nor blame the mother for Brittneys actions as an adult. Go to any high school and count the number of girls who are pregnant.
    By the time our kids are in sixth grade the schools are pulling them into a room and teaching them all about sex. What do you think is going to happen. These kids are going to experiment! It's not just parents lacking the responsibility to talk to their children, it's the school system teaching what parents should be and at to early of an age as far as I am concerned.
    I was a seventeen year old first time mom. I was a sixteen year old bride. My first baby was born thirteen months after our wedding! I have been married to the same man for 37 years. We had two biological children and adopted five more. It can work out for this girl. She is showing some maturity and responsability for her child. That is what people should be pointing out. Not stressing so much on the pregnancy. She made a mistake in getting not practicing safe sex. She did have ONE partner!
    She won't be on the welfare roles. This will affect her career, but she put her child first by making the decision to continue on with the pregnancy and I feel this shows some good judgement on her part. Unlike her sister, she did put her unborn child FIRST!!! As far as the boy goes, my God have none of you ever experienced young love? This could work out for them in the long run. Maybe not. But it is her life and so far, she is acting appropriatly in her decision making. It happens every day. Just because she is the sister of Brittney and has her own carreer the media is making a big deal out of it. Rather then wasing so much space on this story, set an example for young girls and do a story on the average sixteen year old pregnant or with child girl. Show her hardships and the consequences she faces in every day life. Set an example by telling the story of someone who fits in with the average girls life, not another celebrity.

    • Posted By: sstachur @ 12/20/2007 11:15:08 AM

      Are you actually blaming sex-ed for the rising rates of teen pregnancy? Does that mean that drug awareness is to blame for drug usage? Should we also not teach our children about world history in feart that they will repeat the same mistakes? News flash: There are larege number of children who are sexually active before they reach high school. Take this from someone who worked in a middle school. Funny, I don't ever reacall any one of them saying "Gee, that talk about condoms and herpes REALLY made me curious. I think I'm going to try it now." Sex ed is educating our children to the dangers and necessary precautions of sex, not teaching them positions or selling sex toys. As a 17 year old mom, when do you think it was a good idea for someone to be educating you about sex? Because if the schools were to wait until junior or even sophomore year, it seems that it would still have been too late.

  • Posted By: Anna1441 @ 12/20/2007 8:44:34 AM

    Here we go again. As if hearing about Brittney on a daily basis is'nt nauseating enough! People, these are two different girls. Please do not compare one to the other because they are related. Nor blame the mother for Brittneys actions as an adult. Go to any high school and count the number of girls who are pregnant.
    By the time our kids are in sixth grade the schools are pulling them into a room and teaching them all about sex. What do you think is going to happen. These kids are going to experiment! It's not just parents lacking the responsibility to talk to their children, it's the school system teaching what parents should be and at to early of an age as far as I am concerned.
    I was a seventeen year old first time mom. I was a sixteen year old bride. My first baby was born thirteen months after our wedding! I have been married to the same man for 37 years. We had two biological children and adopted five more. It can work out for this girl. She is showing some maturity and responsability for her child. That is what people should be pointing out. Not stressing so much on the pregnancy. She made a mistake in getting not practicing safe sex. She did have ONE partner!
    She won't be on the welfare roles. This will affect her career, but she put her child first by making the decision to continue on with the pregnancy and I feel this shows some good judgement on her part. Unlike her sister, she did put her unborn child FIRST!!! As far as the boy goes, my God have none of you ever experienced young love? This could work out for them in the long run. Maybe not. But it is her life and so far, she is acting appropriatly in her decision making. It happens every day. Just because she is the sister of Brittney and has her own carreer the media is making a big deal out of it. Rather then wasing so much space on this story, set an example for young girls and do a story on the average sixteen year old pregnant or with child girl. Show her hardships and the consequences she faces in every day life. Set an example by telling the story of someone who fits in with the average girls life, not another celebrity.

    • Posted By: sstachur @ 12/20/2007 11:07:19 AM

      Are you actually blaming sex-ed classes for teen pregnancy? So does that also mean that we shouldn't teach our children anything about world history out of frear that they will repeat mistakes that have already been made? Does that mean that drug prevention programs make kids curious to do drugs? There are a large number of kids who are already sexually active before they even reach high school. It is the parents who choose to close their eyes to the reality of their children's lives who end up with distant, dishonest relationships with their kids. Open communitcation and education is the best way to tackle any problem. And yes, that DOES mean discussing things like and sex and drugs.

  • Posted By: jennylynn07 @ 12/20/2007 10:38:05 AM

    i think everyone needs to leave the spears family alone!! Why are people mad at britney? B/c shes not the little 17 year old girl she used to be anymore!! Well you guys...shes a grown women now! So let her live her own life!! And she deserves her kids back too!! Why k-fed wants them so bad? SO HE doesnt have to work! What a lazy bum!! Doesnt he have 2 other kids with another women? Why the hell isnt he fighting to raise them? He needs to be a real man and get a freaking job! And stop bumming off of britney!! And so what if jamie lynn wants to have a baby at 16! Leave them the hell alone!!

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