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Menlo Park, South Africa

Let Eli??n Mourn It saddens and disheartens me to see that psychiatrists don't seem to be involved in deciding what is best for Elian Gonzalez ("Grandma Diplomacy," WORLD AFFAIRS, Jan. 31). With all that is known about childhood loss, trauma and recovery, it is criminal to treat this boy as a political pawn and cause celebre. Eli??n, at the tender age of 5, watched his mother die, saw the deaths of 10 others, survived at sea--terrified for his life--and is treated as if he had marched in a parade. He needs to mourn in an environment of safety and familiar continuity. Give him the one parent he still has and grandparents who can help him make sense of what losses he's sustained.

Deena R. Harris, M.D.

Assistant Clinical Professor of Psychiatry

Columbia-Presbyterian Medical Center

New York, New York

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I have traveled a great deal, most recently in South and Central America, but elsewhere as well. I have rarely met anyone who openly expressed hatred for America or Americans, though some have expressed disagreement with political policies. I think many Americans are too touchy about what others may think of them. Disdain for neighboring countries is the norm everywhere that I have gone and it shouldn't be surprising when you see it. Also, America bashing is sometime resorted to by the intelligencia and the politically active, as a way to distract attention from their own responsibility, or helplessnes as the case may be, regarding their national shortcomings. Some Americans in foreign countries are apologetic for their nationality. That is so unseemly and, I think, not usually appreciated. I think most people the world over expect a person to be loyal to his/her country and find it a little bit embarrasing for someone to be apologising, even if they agree with them. I would rather be respected than liked, and apologising for your country is no way to gain respect. All in all, I am immensly greatful for the good things I have experienced and learned from the people in other countries. My travel has made me appreciate not only what we have here in the States, but also what they have to offer of their own culture for our enlightenment.
Louis Acker

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Posted By: tin can man @ 10/28/2008 11:17:22 PM

I have traveled a great deal, most recently in South and Central America, but elsewhere as well. I have rarely met anyone who openly expressed hatred for America or Americans, though some have expressed disagreement with political policies. I think many Americans are too touchy about what others may think of them. Disdain for neighboring countries is the norm everywhere that I have gone and it shouldn't be surprising when you see it. Also, America bashing is sometime resorted to by the intelligencia and the politically active, as a way to distract attention from their own responsibility, or helplessnes as the case may be, regarding their national shortcomings. Some Americans in foreign countries are apologetic for their nationality. That is so unseemly and, I think, not usually appreciated. I think most people the world over expect a person to be loyal to his/her country and find it a little bit embarrasing for someone to be apologising, even if they agree with them. I would rather be respected than liked, and apologising for your country is no way to gain respect. All in all, I am immensly greatful for the good things I have experienced and learned from the people in other countries. My travel has made me appreciate not only what we have here in the States, but also what they have to offer of their own culture for our enlightenment.
Louis Acker