I appreciate you writing your story. My 21year old son was just diagnosed December 19, 2007. Needless to say life has changed for him and for his immediate family. He's frustrated that he cannot return to his job (he loved his job, his co-workers and his employer) I have been taking him to his appointments that usually last 3-7 hours not including the hour drive to Boston and the hour back home. And trying to juggle my full time job and trying to keep things as normal as possible. We're middle class people paying his monthly health insurance premium while he is on "medical leave" and supporting him financially. We have helped him apply for food stamps and possibly some short term cash ( we just found out that his 2002 VW that he still owes over $5000 will probably disqualify him for any cash help). I won't elaborate any more on the money part of this except to say there really isn't a lot of financial help and understanding for AA. I am still grateful that we have the insurance because it will eliminate a lot of extra "red tape" for the donor's costs (if a bone marrow transplant is needed) would not be covered by our state welfare system. We would rather have peace of mind than one more thing to have to deal with at this point in time. :)
He is currently being treated at Dana Farber Cancer Clinic. The people there are very nice and compassionate. I know what you're saying when you write about being in a cancer clinic and not having cancer. It's weird. He's getting platelet and red blood transfusions for now. Sometimes he sits with his Uncle who is being treated for lukemia! Last week they both had platelet transfusions sitting next to each other. What a way to meet up with family!
If there is no progress , as in blood counts improving within a couple more months, he has been advised that he will need a bone marrow transplant. Fortunately, we are all positive minded and believe that it will work out..
I also am very thankful to the people who donate their bone marrow. The doctor explained the process to us today and I am amazed to hear that the donor has approx. 100 holes punctured in their hips to extract the marrow.
I have stopped telling people that my son is sick unless I absolutely have to for the same reasons you mentioned in your article. People just don't know what aplastic anemia is. Hopefully, your story will get a lot of exposure and more awareness to this disease.









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