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  • Posted By: Camilla @ 01/17/2008 12:57:08 PM

    The Call-7-7-07 in Nashville. This is the reason. 100,000 Americans cried out to God and prayed to end abortion in our country. God is changi9ng the minds and hearts of Americans. Credit and praise to HIM.

  • Posted By: ljcapechick @ 01/17/2008 12:24:45 PM

    Men, believe it or not, are necessary for more than sperm, money, or even the "legitimacy" you scorn. There is something called fatherhood that is more than just a name on a birth certificate. And there is something to be said for sharing the burden as parents. Division of labor did not crop up just to subjugate women--it is also a sensible solution to the reality of the demands of a family. And in order to divide labor, you need someone to share. Flip it around, you nutty feminists... Why do we as a society feel sorry for a young child who, for whatever reason, has to be raised without its mother, yet we don't feel the same degree of pity for SO many children today raised without their fathers?

    As the mother of three future fathers, I sure hope my society can soon get off its feminist high-horse, quit bashing men, and encourage them to be proud of the critical role they are meant to play in the family.

    • Posted By: wvupiphi @ 01/17/2008 12:57:04 PM

      "Nutty Feminists", "feminist High-horse" I just love the supposedly holy conservatives who can sling mud. Yes is perfect world a two parent home is idea for a child, but it often doesn't happy. And children can grow up happy, healthy and secure in themselves in a single parent family, and they can grow up well messed up in a two parent family.

      Please remember that for thousands of years family duties were clearly drawn: women took care of the children and men hunted, and protected.
      If a woman chooses to have her child on her own that is her choice, if a couple decide to stay together for thier child that is their choice, if the woman decides that for whatever reason she choose abortion--that is her choice. No one can or should be made to do what they do not, can not, or want to do.
      Civil liberties were granted to allow choice.
      I'm proud to be a so called "nutty, high-horse feminist.

    • Posted By: motherterra @ 01/17/2008 12:32:37 PM

      I would never discount the role of a father in a child's life, or any parent in a child's life. I am only saying that if a woman wants her baby, she should be able to have it. And, that marriage should be for love. I do not think that men feel valued when they are married for any other reason that because they are love, respected and someone wants to partner with them in life and family. This is not always so easy to find though. I believe it is fairly rare to find a real marriage like that, and I won't compromise and be with someone I don't love, or don't respect, or who is abusive, so I can keep my child. Women need the choice to have their children on their own, so we can truly value our men for who they are.

  • Posted By: telicity @ 01/17/2008 12:55:33 PM

    Hey I grew up on banquet Salisbury steak, fish sticks, and McDonlads I turned out ok:)

  • Posted By: numuvs @ 01/17/2008 12:54:21 PM

    Medical Science identifies conception as "the point at which a new individual human being comes into existence, since "when sperm and ovum join to form the zygote, the individual's genotype is established."

    Medical Science identifies "abortion as the removal or expulsion of an embryo or fetus from the uterus, resulting in or caused by its death."

    If new human existence starts at conception, and embryo's can die, we can logically conclude that a life has been willfully and purposely terminated. Since we know this is legal, the real question is, Is this just or unjust?

    Defination of Murder: Murder is the unlawful killing of a human person with malice aforethought.

    Definition of Choice: Choice consists of the mental process of thinking involved with the process of judging the merits of multiple options and selecting one of them for action.

    Malice is a legal term referring to a party's intention to do injury to another party.

    The execution of Abortion is unjust lawful way of putting to death a human with malice aforethought.

    An unjust law is no law at all. In meaning, a law that is unjust does not serve the purpose of law.

    We have tried to make a system that facilitates making and changing laws in order to continue to serve the cause of justice. But when that system fails, or if society as a whole has failed its commitment to justice, then yes, every citizen has the right to disobey an unjust law. they have the responsibility to first try to effect change through the accepted system. Only when that fails -- when the government fails in its purpose, and when the majority is clearly wrong -- is a citizen justified in breaking the law.

    "Jane Roe"
    Norma McCorvey became a member of the pro-life movement in 1995; she now supports making abortion illegal. In 1998, she testified to Congress.

    ??? It was my pseudonym, Jane Roe, which had been used to create the "right" to abortion out of legal thin air. But Sarah Weddington and Linda Coffee never told me that what I was signing would allow women to come up to me 15, 20 years later and say, "Thank you for allowing me to have my five or six abortions. Without you, it wouldn't have been possible." Sarah never mentioned women using abortions as a form of birth control. We talked about truly desperate and needy women, not women already wearing maternity clothes.

    "Jane Doe"
    In 2003, Sandra Cano filed a motion to re-open the case "Doe v. Bolton" claiming that she had not been aware that the case had been filed on her behalf and that if she had known she would not have supported the litigation. The district court denied her motion, and she appealed. When the appeals court also denied her motion,] she requested review by the United States Supreme Court. However, the Supreme Court declined to hear Sandra Cano's suit to overturn the ruling.

  • Posted By: Sherry27 @ 01/17/2008 12:51:48 PM

    A child is more than a "pulsing group of cells" from day one. It doesn't become a human being when you decide its one just because its looking at you in your face. Life really does begin at conception! Everyone has a right to choose what they want to do about their pregnancies. I guess I'm pro-life and pro-choice, because in the end you raise your child on your own. I have two children and I have had two abortions. I regret my abortions especially when I look at my two kids, but at the time I had the abortions I thought it was the right thing for me to do. I felt like I was choosing to either end their life or my life (as I knew it) . I selfishly chose to make my babies the sacrificial lambs so that I could continue to live the way I wanted to. I think in most cases that's what its all about for women who are going through the agonizing decision to terminate their pregnancies . Rarely is the mothers life in danger or she's a rape victim, or something is terribly wrong with the baby. We all made a very selfish choice. Life is all about choices sometimes we make choices we are really proud of and other times we do things we are ashamed of. My lifelong consequence of having two abortions is that I am ashamed that I didn't trust God enough at that point in my life to get me through my circumstances. Today, I am a single mom with two kids and I trust God completely. My life is hard, but I'm not hopeless or selfish like I was in the past and actually my children and I are very happy. In fact, I'm happier and my life has more meaning than it ever did when I chose to have those abortions. Anyway, I don't know why the abortion rates are going down, maybe more women are hearing stories like mine and deciding to have some faith and not to be as selfish as I was.

  • Posted By: Tracker500 @ 01/17/2008 12:50:48 PM

    "abortion is only available in 23% of US counties"

    bethyb, as I said in my earlier post, Planned Parenthood is nothing more than BIG BUSINESS. Profit and greed are the key motivating factors in any decision to build new, more accessible facilities. Like Wal-Mart, they will only open up new clinics in large population centers to maximized profits. You don't see Wal-Marts in small towns. Neither will you see Planned Parenthood in small towns. The profit margin is just not worth it. Helping pregnant women is the least of their concerns.

  • Posted By: Dave the reader @ 01/17/2008 11:50:43 AM

    This is a good trend, thank God!!!

    • Posted By: Dave in NM @ 01/17/2008 12:48:06 PM

      Better, in my opinion, to thank those responsible, as long as it's due to increased use of birth control (otherwise, it's likely merely an increase in unwanted children, which is hardly a "good trend").

  • Posted By: Tracker500 @ 01/17/2008 12:46:06 PM

    "abortion is only available in 23% of US counties"

    bethyb, as I said in an earlier post, Planned Parenthood is nothing but

  • Posted By: ljcapechick @ 01/17/2008 12:44:42 PM

    Bethyb: I don't agree with your logic, but even if I did, would that change in attitudes not be a GOOD thing? If you're not convinced by the moral argument, doesn't this one work: "Abortions are hard to get and expensive, and I know if I had an unintended pregnancy it would be difficult for me to get one, so I'll be more careful???" Are you saying that's a BAD thing if that changes attitudes?

  • Posted By: lconcepcion @ 01/17/2008 11:26:35 AM

    To each and every person -myself included- who has ever supported, performed, participated, or helped in any way with the mass killing (1out of every 3 children since 1961) of children through the means of abortion of ANY kind through the use of devices such as IUD, to taking abortion pills, to actually surgical procedures: you are an assassin, a killer, just like a downtown gangster. Please don't lie to yourself. Christ will forgive you.

    • Posted By: Dave in NM @ 01/17/2008 12:44:03 PM

      I respect your right to your opinion, but only to the extent to which you recognize it as such.

  • Posted By: lconcepcion @ 01/17/2008 11:30:09 AM

    We abort because we don't know better. Animals, once pregnant, don't care who got them pregnant, they move instictively to protect and guard their offsrping. God expects the same from ALL creatures on the planet and that includes US. We have managed to come up with thousands of arguments to prove that we are better than a monkey because we can kill our offsprings????? Please accept the Lord Jesus, He is the truth.

    • Posted By: Dave in NM @ 01/17/2008 12:42:54 PM

      We abort because we have no choice. Increase availability of birth control and, most importantly, comprehensive sex education, and watch abortion rates plummet to near zero. Of course, conservatives will never let that happen, as it would remove one of the greatest factors motivating millions of Americans to vote against their interests, and those of their country.

  • Posted By: wvupiphi @ 01/17/2008 12:42:29 PM

    Abortions down and Teen pregnancy is up. Something isn't right. We aren't educating our children, providing them with the protection that they need to make a choice or to protect themselves. Something is wrong in America.

  • Posted By: Imright @ 01/17/2008 11:31:03 AM

    Anyone who tries to protect their "freedom of choice" with a comment like "In which verse of the bible does God say abortion is murder," has an awkward skewed perception of faith. Maybe attempted murder isn't sinful either? The only reference I am aware of is Thou Shall not Kill. Hey, as long as no fully developed human being dies, you are following the rules of God....right? Wake up - if you choose to abort the baby developing you are choosing to kill. The gates of heaven are not open to individuals arguing thier false interpretation of the word of God.

    • Posted By: Dave in NM @ 01/17/2008 12:40:38 PM

      Anyone who makes their decisions based on faith is in no position to impose their strictures on others.

    • Posted By: cmf1977 @ 01/17/2008 11:52:20 AM

      The actual commandment was "Thou shall not commit murder" . King James had the bible rewritten so it was more palatable for him. The old testament encourages a lot of killing.

  • Posted By: ljcapechick @ 01/17/2008 12:40:01 PM

    TELICITY: "My husband was pro choice because the women in his life were."
    I love that statement. That is the same for my husband who is now a father appalled and deeply saddened by the idea of abortion.

  • Posted By: TomSkib @ 01/17/2008 11:31:07 AM

    Why is a baby so precious to some and a hindrance to others? Seriously. Talk to a couple that wants a baby. Even unborn, they talk to him/her, they play with him/her. The baby responds. The baby kicks. The baby moves. It's a baby, plain and simple. If people don't want to have babies, use birth control. Use one as a primary and another as a backup. Or simply don't have sex. It's not a hard decision.

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    • Posted By: Dave in NM @ 01/17/2008 12:39:56 PM

      That's fine if birth control, and the education to know how to use it properly, are made available. Abstinence-only "education" is a sure-fire way to guarantee more unintended pregnancies, and makes your approach meaningless.

  • Posted By: ladyL @ 01/17/2008 12:31:41 PM

    I think the writers of this article missed an important point. Don't kid yourself that pro-life or pro-abortion groups are making any kind of a difference. Maybe women are being more careful with pregnancy and getting pregnant less often because they are learning how difficult both abortion and motherhood can be -- financially, emotionally and time-wise. Parents, in turn, are teaching their children this hard lesson as well as indicated by Happy2behappy. It's a new enlightened time in the world and thank goodness for it.

    • Posted By: vince.stewart @ 01/17/2008 12:39:04 PM

      I agree.
      Prevention is key in this decline

  • Posted By: ljcapechick @ 01/17/2008 12:36:55 PM

    All sorts of women (and men) have children who "should not." Terrible things happen to children at the hands of parents, coaches, neighbors, even priests. Does this make it right to kill the baby to spare them the chance that something bad might happen to them? Geez, then we ought to go take out a whole ton of them--that would really lighten the load of the foster care system.

    The only reason "someone else" gets involved in the decision is because there is no one to speak on behalf of the baby.

    And as for those back-room abortions the pro-choicers like to terrify us with images of??? Compare that to this story from my social work days: Illiterate, drug-addicted, pregnant mom of 4 children, all born addicted to crack. Now pregnant again. NO interest in an abortion. Great deal of interest in the additional SSI check her baby would bring as the child of a legally blind father. Doesn't want him going to foster care (no check then) if he's born positive for drugs, so she tries to take herbal teas to induce labor to give birth to her premature, crack-addicted baby at home so his blood won't be tested for drugs. Both end up in ER and baby almost dies.

    Pretty horrific crap happens. And it's horrible. But it's also no reason to legally JUSTIFY the stupid crap people do, whether that means a back-room abortion or the scenario above.

  • Posted By: telicity @ 01/17/2008 12:36:06 PM

    I think there are less abortions because the increased use in ultrasounds. My husband was pro choice because the women in his life were. The first time he saw our son's heartbeat at 6 weeks changed his mind, as well as many other people I showed my ultrasound pic to.They had no idea a baby looked so much like a baby in urteto .

  • Posted By: mkarnuk@hotmail.com @ 01/17/2008 12:36:03 PM

    To FeddieChick: Check Isaiah 43:7; 44:24; 49: 1,5 and Jeremiah 1:5.

  • Posted By: tmoney80 @ 01/17/2008 11:31:13 AM

    Here's what I don't understand. Why is it that in this article they are questioning whether why the decline in abortion is good news or bad news. I would hope that the decline in abortion is good news to everyone regardless of your political stance. I am a conservative Christian who is pro-life so naturally I am happy to hear this, but shouldn't everyone be happy to hear this. I can't imagine that some liberal person who is pro-choice would think that a decline of abortion is bad news. Correct me if I am wrong, and I hope I am not, but the conflict around this issue is whether or not it should be legal for women who have unwanted pregnancies to choose to terminate the pregnancy. I don't think the conflict here is that one group thinks it a good thing and one group thinks its a bad thing. I would hope that the liberal stance is that abortion is a necessary evil at best. Not a practice that everyone should try sometime in their lives because it's fun. The medical fact is that the consequences of abortion are drastically harsh, not only to the unborn but to the mother as well. So saying that the abortion rate being down is good news is almost unhuman. Everyone, who has a heart, should be happy that they are down. Now the stance of abortion remaining legal is an entirely different subject for debate.

    • Posted By: Dave in NM @ 01/17/2008 12:35:58 PM

      The decline in abortions is only good news if it is accompanied by a decline in unwanted children. Otherwise, it's a tragedy; one I would not expect you to recognize as such.

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