i think anything can make us happy,and indeed we don't have to be ambitous coz once we failed from achieving something, that makes us unhappy.a lighter heart also can make us happy,no burdens and no worries,prayer i think is the best key to it!
There are 22 countries that are happier than America. One man visited them to understand why.
i think anything can make us happy,and indeed we don't have to be ambitous coz once we failed from achieving something, that makes us unhappy.a lighter heart also can make us happy,no burdens and no worries,prayer i think is the best key to it!
Live and let Live I say. The most conservative and the most liberal country are happiest. I find that the majority of people (everywhere) live and let live. They are busy 'doing' and HELPING others to 'do' and have little time to be petty. People on the right and the left have too much time for resentment and spend a lot of time dwelling in hate. That very small minority in every country drags all of the rest that chose to be happy :)
Live and let Live I say. The most conservative and the most liberal. There is no fixed way to happiness since happiness can also be in the eye,mind,heart of the beholder. I notice that haters are everywhere and although I have experienced a lot of hardship due to my ethnic background it has given me an insight that most people that don't move out side their comfort zone will never have. Conclusion we are all Equal.
this book should have a theme song, how's shiny happy people by REM?
The last time I visited my country of origin, Barbados, homeland of the up and coming Rhiana, I kept checking myself as I walked along the city streets. Why, everyone seemed to be smiling? Not at me, but then I realised that was their natural expression in repose. As a boy, I used to hear tourists commenting over and over again about the smiling faces, until I dismissed those remarks as a weird foreign courtesy. Maybe its the winter, maybe its a reaction to my skin color, or in "the danger of the stranger, but in the two N.E cities I've lived in for almost twenty-five years now, I can only describe the natural expression of the strangers I meet on the street as grim. I wonder why? So I am intrigued to discover, did the researcher ever visit Barbados?
Why are you here in the USA?
happy people should never rule any governments. it's, risky... risking other lives perhaps?
I???m serious flabbergasted that Malaysia and Malaysian in particular can be HAPPIER then the US of A???
Yes we are a young country, yes we are a peaceful country (I would prefer tolerant country), yes we are a booming economy however with such a stronghold by the ruling government on media companies (totally no press freedom) Malaysian are a suppressed bunch of toddlers under the age of 3 years old.
Prices of everything in Malaysia are startlingly expensive and substandard. Our own people buys and consumes 2nd grade rice, 2nd grade gasoline, 2nd grade cars while the 1st grades are use for export and sold at ???cheaper??? prices with better value.
Affirmative Action used by the government for the majority is seriously something quiet amazing that the minority still endure one way or another. Malaysia is ruled by the ruling government using racial and religious tension and fear rather then for the good of its ???Malaysian??? citizens.
The minority are 2nd class citizens in their own country (even a foreigner who embraces Malaysia main religion are treated better)and I might say that the middle class majority are not that far off as emerge a so called elite group of ??????majority??????. Sheeps and goats we are.
There are plenty of skeletons in the closet for Malaysia - unresolved, swept under the rug, close an eye and put on hold until further notice. This is the TOLERANT Malaysian way.
I consider this list bias as most probably, the conclusion and deduction is made from receiving answers mostly from the majority. I for one vote Malaysia is not that ???far off??? from Moldova politically and socially.
Economically Malaysia is growing but because of that Affirmative Action of 30% must be held by ???bumiputras??? not MALAYSIANS but bumiputras (go google Ketuanan Melayu), we might screw ourselves long-term in the near future.
"... we might screw ourselves long-term in the near future." - it's already happening! yahoo~~~!!!! LONG LIVE MALAYSIA!!!! i'm sure the parliament's enjoying that bliss, eric weiner. go read http://www.malaysia-today.net before you write your next follow-up book.
You still don't understand that happiness is to be found in one's internal responses to external stimuli, so that the material paradigms of happiness that you cite are not truly relevant to happiness, but what they point to is absence of physical misery. For example I am a 65 year old widower with chronic back pain, but am a very happy person, because I've known such joy in my personal relationships with the two women I have lost, my mother and my late wife, that it seems to have shaped my mindset forever, in the absence of more acute discomfort. So Maylasians are happy because they are content with a COMPARATIVELY lower standard of living, whilst enjoying the rewards of more interwoven close knit familial relationships than are the custom in our country. Family, make the difference.
seems like u are a happy person with very low standards in life and i do envy that. fyi i have a wonderful back with no pain and i have more needs in terms of what my country should be offering to its citizens, like, HEALTHCARE, a good example. u are a widower that enjoyed a certain phase that's very different, it's 2008... and i think being retired and being in the working force is very different too. you might be happy in your current stage of life, but may of us are not getting paid enough to keep up with the constant rise in cost of living, no thanks to corruption and irregular checks on food pricing and so on. brotherlou, i may be a skeptic, but you should understand that it's 2008. it's different. i am very happy in beijing, and i miss my family a lot and i can't wait to fly home. but i dont miss malaysia. but i do miss, what was it called, right - north borneo.
Its important to realize that our Constitution for the U.S. says we have the right to pursue happiness. It is not something that just comes with living here. We built our whole country around the fact that we AREN'T happy and it's something you pursue on your own. Unfortunately, too many people think they are entitled to happiness and it's something you get automatically. No matter what country you're in, you can be happy. it's a personal choice, be it relgious or not, monetary-based or not, sex and drugs-based or not. Maybe a more scientific venue would be to analyze Depression and Suicide cases, as many have said previous to this comment..
True happiness is from with in yourself. If you can not find peace with yourself, then where ever you go there is unhappiness.
The real truth,is this.the Bible was written by Man,inspired by the Holy Spirit,Check it out.francissilver
Would that be the old testament or the new one? What about the torah? Or are the Jews no longer the chosen people?
being born and lived up to 35 years of age in western Europe, I can understand the "safety net" definition. Also Europeans regard quality and durability and do not move as much around like Americans. Therefore they invest much more in their houses or places where they live to be more comfortable and cosy. Education is ivery important there and if you don't go to college, which is virtually free (paid by taxpayers), you learn a trade. Dropping out of school is impossible and not an option. Therefore there are far less uneducated or ignorant people running around there than in America. Working in America feels like working in a Kindergarden with adults as students. Everything is designed "idiot proof" and people still mess up all the time and then they still have an excuse for everything. Nobody wants to be reposible for anything. This is very frustrating to me. Most people here do not try to do their job right the first time, they just "half ass" pretty much everything. They don't care and they seem to be very unhappy on top of that.
Europeans generally stay put in the villages or towns where they were born. This can, and often does, lead to a high incidence of inbreeding and attendant genetic defects (such as were rampant in the small town in the Netherlands where I lived). Somewhat contrary to your characterization of Europeans as being so much better educated than Americans, let's not forget that there is ignorance aplenty in Europe, ranging from the archetypal peasant (who is to be found in droves throughout continental western and eastern Europe) to the working class ruffian in the U.K. Americans work much harder and get more done than Europeans. Europeans are bumps on a log. Americans are go-getters. Just try to get anything done in Europe on a Sunday -- it''s impossible. Order a meal in a European restaurant and be prepared to wait for two hours while the wait staff giggle, prance and talk to one another.
How is it that you are such an expert on Europenas? Is it because you lived in one of about 50 countries for 3 whole years? Most of what you have said does not make any sense. I was born in Ireland, lived in Greece and the Netherlands, and although they are a few morons like anywhere, the majority of people are not. You onlu have to watch American TV to know where most of the weirdo's and morons on this world live. Look at what they have done to Iraq!! They voted Bush in for a SECOND TERM!! that says it all...
Generalizing an entire population is exactly what your post is against. Don't do it to Americans. Yes, there are idiots aplenty here. But there are also geniuses. What we SHOULD do, is take away all the warning labels for a year to weed out all the idiots.
I guess they don't teach English grammer in Ireland.
inbreeding and attendant genetic defects?!
Self-reliance and personal responsibility are important attributes that distinguish Americans from most Europeans, who I found generally to be conformist and sheep-like. Mosty Europeans do not know how to fix a car or remodel their home because "that's someone else's job." I'll takje an American worker over a European worker any day of the week. We still know how to work, unlike many Europeans.
why don't you go back to where ever you came from.
It just goes to prove, no matter where you are you're still there.
It goes to prove no matter where you are you're still there.
The truth is,the Bible was written by man,inspired by The Holy Spirit The third God Head. The Father The Son and The Holy Spirit .In case you don't know,The Father is The Almighty, The Son is Jesus Christ and The Holy Spirit is The Spirit of God Almighty ,that teaches and comforts us that are his.So we have to ask His Son Jesus to come into our Hearts and fogive our sins.francissilver
And I am inspired to go with evolution.
I never believe statistics such as this one. Unless researchers has been to every city in every country, and viewed a generation from conception to death, than any research about this subject is null and void. Period.
This article is not very informative for the general readers. A much better story appeared in the magazine, New Scientist, part of which appeared on BBC, and is reproduced below, which shows the extent of variation. Imagine, Nigeria, one of the poorest and most corrupt country in the world, houses the "Happiest people on Earth" !
Nigeria tops happiness survey
A new study of more than 65 countries published in the UK's New Scientist magazine suggests that the happiest people in the world live in Nigeria - and the least happy, in Romania.
The survey confirms money does not buy happiness
People in Latin America, Western Europe and North America are happier than their counterparts in Eastern Europe and Russia.
Nigeria has the highest percentage of happy people followed by Mexico, Venezuela, El Salvador and Puerto Rico, while Russia, Armenia and Romania have the fewest.
But factors that make people happy may vary from one country to the next with personal success and self-expression being seen as the most important in the US, while in Japan, fulfilling the expectations of family and society is valued more highly.
The survey appears to confirm the old adage that money cannot buy happiness.
The researchers for World Values Survey described the desire for material goods as "a happiness suppressant".
They say happiness levels have remained virtually the same in industrialized countries since World War II, although incomes have risen considerably.
The exception is Denmark, where people have become more satisfied with life over the last three decades.
The study was carried out in 1999-2001 and published for the first time by New Scientist, recently.
Consumerism
Researchers believe the unchanging trend is linked to consumerism.
"New Zealand ranked 15 for overall satisfaction, the US 16th, Australia 20th and Britain 24th - although Australia beats the other three for day-to-day happiness," New Scientist says.
The survey is a worldwide investigation of socio-cultural and political change conducted about every four years by an international network of social scientists.
It includes questions about how happy people are and how satisfied they are with their lives.
The survey further states that, although such surveys are not new, they are being increasingly taken into account by policy makers. Following are the important conclusions:
HAPPINESS AROUND THE WORLD:
The happiest Countries
Nigeria
Mexico
Venezuela
El Salvador
Puerto Rico
The least happy countries
Russia
Armenia
Romania
Source: New Scientist
PATH TO HAPPINESS
Genetic propensity to happiness
Marriage
Make friends and value them
Desire less
Do someone a good turn
Have faith (religious or not)
Stop comparing your looks with others
Earn more money
Grow old gracefully
Don't worry if you're not a genius
I AM HAPPY TO BE AN AMERICAN !
whatever eric dude
however wrote the the religious paragraph, did you you ever ask god's grandkids...jesus' sons...to make you happier.... dont make everything religious. for the writer, u have no idea what life is all about. i'm happy everywhere i go..thank god. for my health, wealth and wellbeing.. so good luck genereting money by what u write.i would get in to a different business if i were you.....weiner!!!!
what a disappointing article. this is all common knowledge. a list of the happiest places would have been much more interesting. but, no big deal, i'm still happy.
A disappointing article. This is all commopn knowledge. I wanted a list of the happiest places.
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