The Pursuit of the Blissful

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  • Posted By: CASPER01 @ 01/24/2008 12:33:19 PM

    This is perfect rubbish. How does one quantify such an abstract quality? Journalists who write garbage like this should go to Iraq and Sudan and actually do some worthwhile reporting!

    Anonymous

  • Posted By: nilesrealm @ 01/24/2008 12:25:49 PM

    "You will never be happy if you continue to search for what happiness consists of. You will never live if you are looking for the meaning of life." - Albert Camus

  • Posted By: nilesrealm @ 01/24/2008 12:25:11 PM

    "You will never be happy if you continue to search for what happiness consists of. You will never live if you are looking for the meaning of life." - Albert Camus

  • Posted By: aarhumm @ 01/24/2008 12:23:05 PM

    great idea, only about 300 cars a night are torched by the happy people in europe each day, along with the app. unemployment rate of 14 % compared to u.s. average of 4.5% in our now non admitted recession. We could all take off on friday's, and come in late and leave early and the companies we work for could start to lose money, until they all go out of business, then we could be really happy when we can wake up when we want and have 7 days off a week.

  • Posted By: aarhumm @ 01/24/2008 11:30:45 AM

    of course there is happiness, "for every action there is an equal and opposite reaction" as you posted vinsin328 you do agree there is sadness therefore there must be happiness. How to obtain and mantain this happiness is the key. I agree with you that simply understanding that good and bad things are going to happen helps in this, life changes every second, good will come, bad will come, moneys here, now its not, ect... however God does not change and he is what i base my hapiness upon, he is my rock and refuge, there for wether my present situation brings me grief, or despair, wether my children are healthy or sick, ect.. I may grieve, I may cry, of course, but I remain at a state of contenment, and my happiness remains through it all, come down to texas and see me smile, everyday

  • Posted By: vinsin328 @ 01/24/2008 11:18:53 AM

    What is happiness? Does something like hapiness really exit? Animals don't think about happiness. Isn't it a another product in the market to sell and make somehow profit out of it? You'll feel always more content if you can understand a situation fully and your state of being. And there are only two paths for them, one is complete ignorance and other is knowledge. Simply understanding that good and bad things are part of everybody life and it's normal to feel sad sometime can make a lot of change in someones perspective. Remember religion and ignorance may be the easiest way towards this but is the worst.

  • Posted By: vinsin328 @ 01/24/2008 11:17:14 AM

    What is happiness? Does something like hapiness really exit? Animals don't think about happiness. Isn't it a another product in the market to sell and make somehow profit out of it? You'll feel always more content if you can understand a situation fully and your state of being. And there are only two paths for them, one is complete ignorance and other is knowledge. Simply understanding that good and bad things are part of everybody life and it's normal to feel sad sometime can make a lot of change in someones perspective. Remember religion and ignorance may be the easiest way towards this but is the worst.

  • Posted By: Ladyjay @ 01/24/2008 11:10:54 AM

    Ooops I meant aarhumm and Lily lou too.

  • Posted By: Ladyjay @ 01/24/2008 11:10:03 AM

    I agree with you Lily lou. Nice comment and so very true!

  • Posted By: Ladyjay @ 01/24/2008 11:09:28 AM

    Lily Lou I agree with you wholeheartedly! Nice comment...

  • Posted By: Lily lou @ 01/24/2008 10:56:21 AM

    Lets just say i'll never be visiting Moldova.

  • Posted By: Lily lou @ 01/24/2008 10:55:52 AM

    lets just say ill never be visiting moldova.

  • Posted By: Dave in NM @ 01/22/2008 11:44:03 AM

    I think we'd be happier if we realigned what really does, and really should, make us happy. Too many of us think money makes happiness, or that winning does, or seeing others lose. I've been much happier since I realized that what makes me happy is people - my family, my friends - NOTHING makes me happier than spending time with my kids. I wonder if there's a statistical correlation between people's happiness and their emphasis on other people. Anecdotal evidence in that regard appears strong.

    • Posted By: aarhumm @ 01/24/2008 10:42:10 AM

      to the religion related posts above, everyone posting pretty much agrees according to what they wrote, that love brings about happiness, wether it be loving ones children, husband, family, ect..., God is love, while here on earth the closer relationship we have with God the closer we are to true agape love (love that never changes regardless of external or internal changes in our lives) and thus the happier lives we have here. Happier being not relative to circumstances, because once that relationship with Jesus Christ is truely established (key word being truely, don't fool yourself like many americans do) the yoke is placed on his shoulders and you no longer bear it, your or blessed by being made content with your life regarldess of money, material, family,... all of these things change God does not. Regarding the above topic of Heaven, God is love, love brings happiness, once in heaven the material things do not amount to 1 grain of sand, the point is you will then live with God forever, thus living with true love, never failing love, agape love forever, thus living in eternal happiness for ever. Hell is a simple as seperation from God, God is love, love brings happiness, no God no love no happiness for all of eternity,

  • Posted By: Bryheinnen @ 01/24/2008 9:47:49 AM

    The people who are the "happiest " (whatever that means) seem to be those who spend the least amount of time obsessing about whether they are "happy" or not. This American fixation on "happiness" is a destabilizing pathology in American the searxch for happiness is essentially selfish in nature . Our ancestors, the ones who made thius country great, had no time for the pursuit of "happiness"--and ironically in many ways may have been happier--or at least more CONTENT, a much different and much more important thing, than today's society with its neurotic fixation on being "happy."

  • Posted By: Bryheinnen @ 01/24/2008 9:38:11 AM

    The happiest people are generally those who spend the least time obsessing over whether they are happy or not. "Happiness" wasn't even on the radar screen for our ancestors in this country, the people who built America. They were too damned busy just getting by. Happiness is largely an illusion and a chimera for people too befuddled with a sense of entitlement to realize that happiness is much less important than comntentment, quite a different thing. The fixation on happiness is a serious American pathology.

  • Posted By: elektek @ 01/24/2008 9:20:37 AM

    Funny, I don't recall seeing anything written about the massive influx of people trying to enter these countries. Also, you don't miss what you have never had. Weiner's statement that you have to be less ambitios to be happy is a pile of crap. Look at the ghettos, you can't find less ambition on the face of the planet and I sure don't see smiles and hugs- do you?

  • Posted By: BrotherLou @ 01/24/2008 8:51:05 AM

    Before you can discuss happiness you must make distinctions between, pleasure, joy, happiness, and fulfillment. Pleasure is sensate. Joy is mental. Happiness is an emotional state. Fulfillment is the satisfaction of knowing, like MLK, that one has fulfilled not one's goals, but one's potential.

  • Posted By: san_sm @ 01/22/2008 9:55:13 PM

    sorry, to add: i'm amazed at how malaysia is even on the list. can you let us know on what means you did you based your research on? i'm a malaysian that had fleed to beijing. i'm really curious to know on how a country that has 1) identity crises 2) racial issues 3) high crime rate manage to be happy...

    • Posted By: BrotherLou @ 01/24/2008 8:30:34 AM

      Well you obviously are not. You are confusing macro with micro. Most people live in a microcosmic world, until the soldiers come knocking. You are one of the unlucky ones.

  • Posted By: naucole @ 01/23/2008 3:10:49 PM

    "Posted By: Cates @ 01/23/2008 11:34:13 AM
    Comment: My true joy was found when I got rid of the irrational trappings and emotional baggage of religion. I would have never suspected that becoming an atheist could make one so happy. The American President Madison said it best ??? "Religious bondage shackles and debilitates the mind and unfits it for every noble enterprise, every expanded prospect."
    -James Madison, letter to William Bradford, April 1, 1774"

    It's funny that you mentioned that....I think back at all the religious teachings that were so forcefully fed to my brain and wonder, would I be happy with angels singing, golden pathways, pearly gates..everything mentioned in the bible as far as "heaven" is concerned is purely materialistic. Material things do not make a person happy, they make life easier and might make days happier, but its whats inside that makes people happy. Its looking at your daughter and seeing her eyes light up when she sees you (lets not forget that is she sins and goes to hell then i will not even know she existed...hmm doesnt sound like a good thing to me)
    So I do agree, hell sounds better almost, warm atmosphere (well if you actually still had your body, then fire might be something to make you not want to go there, but this is supposed to be for your soul right, souls dont have skin...or do they?? you will know everything about everyone, everything, every answer you ever wanted to know...so knowledge is turned into a bad thing now ...hmm. i dont get it, and as the more I sit here and write this the more unhappy that I am getting, so yes I agree to religion making things more complicated than it should be, always making sure you are doing good, praying, whatever....that could lead to unhappiness.
    As far as Americans are unhappy, well....get a job, get an education, dont ask someone to do what you yourself are responsible for for doing. When you do all of these things, you will be happy, happy that you accomplished something, and then you will share with others what you learned and the endless cycle of life will start all over...

    For those religious ones: God never gives you what you cant handle.....

    go figure,
    Nichole
    Arkansas

    • Posted By: BrotherLou @ 01/24/2008 8:19:18 AM

      Hell, is exclusion from the joys of heaven. Either you found yourelf in a hellish church, (Catholic), or you are clinging to some perversion for your pleasures, not having understood the distinction between pleasure and joy, which can be found outside of religion anyway, and feel excluded or berated by their beliefs. Once you mature enought to understand that distinction you can find joy in so many human exercises that you will be able to discard the joyless pleasures that make you unhappy.

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